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44 Spokane, WA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:12am
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and might want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I think I went too deep on the last profile ...

So let's try to traditional stuff. Work in technology, I have a law degree that I use occasionally.

I tend to fill my days. May work a little long one day. Go to yoga another. Sometimes gaming. Sometimes reading. Or a getaway weekend with a massage and lazy days.

I have traveled overseas. I followed a couple of gurus around for a few years. I have lived in about 8 cities between Bakersfield, CA, Missoula MT, and Seattle WA over the past 20 years.

I make time for what is important, which includes relationships. I love meeting people. Have dinner or coffee and connect. Hear about what makes people (you) tick. May not go anywhere, but I need to eat and I love company so why not do both together?

On a deeper level. I find that most of my needs have been met. I have a good job, a place to stay, freedom to travel ... . the question I have in front of me is: What next?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finding edges ... My current work (I tend to be very project based) is wrapping up. Found all those work edges ...
Spirituality and Fatherhood are good to work on.
I do tend to take conversational trips with my friends that they don't tend to go ... Always with love in my heart, but I love waling into the unexplored.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spirituality (Eastern religion)
Empathy/ Compassion
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall - 6' 5"
A lot of people describe me as intense, but it must be a slow burn because I don't see it ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food - fine dining and comfort food like stew ... Castagna, Bar Avignon, Beast, Ringside, Le Pigeon ... I go out to dinner a lot right now.
Movies - **Princess Bride**, Quest for the Holy Grail, Aliens.
Shows - The Unit, The Good Wife, **The Wire**, Archer, The Daily Show
Music - Not a big music guy. I listen in the car and rock out to stuff with a beat, but music is mostly an excuse for me to move: Frankie Goes to Hollywood, Depeche Mode, Juno Reactor, Macklemore,, Lady Gaga are some of what I listen to.
Beethoven's 9th and Dvorak New World are both incredible if I want to relaxed and inspired.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am pretty low need when push comes to shove. I consider retreating for the world and living inthe wilderness sometimes, but I do enjoy life's comforts.
So to give some insight.
Computer (work), Sencha (tea), crock pot (meals), friends, internet (work), a nice comfortable bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
not thinking :-)

Just being present. Being aware. Posture. Being relaxed. Being centered.

My experience is if you keep centered the rest takes care of itself (and no, it doesn't always go well, and being present is often the best response .... IMO)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
50% - With kids watching a movie or going for a walk.
50% - Hang with friends over good food or go out dancing ... occasionally take a long weekend somewhere fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I went skydiving I thought I would be cool (to deal with the fear) to yell when I jumped. "Woo-Hoo" and "Geronimo"
According to the people on the ground it just sounded like I was screaming my head off in fear.
You should message me if
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You have an interest to meet in person. I can't figure chemistry over the net and I don't need more internet friends.

Meet for coffee, tea, maybe a meal ... just chat. Maybe there is a connection. Maybe not. But I find it fun to connect.