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43 M Beaverton, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:34pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I like to explore. I tend to find the edge of whatever it .. and cross it. How else to you it is a real edge or just an internal barrier? A granite wall or tissue paper?

I work in computers. Being able to do much of my work anywhere has allowed my the flexibility to travel all over the world. Iceland, Turkey, Morocco, Russia, Fiji, Australia and New Zealand among others. Haven't found my edge there ...

I am looking for someone spiritual. I had an opportunity to go to India, the Maha Kumbha Mela, and picked up my spiritual path. For the next 5 years I studied Daoism, Hinduism and Tibetan Buddhism and practiced. I found my answers, but I have a ways to go before I grok them.

I went to Law School thinking I could make a bigger difference there than in computers. Three years of school and 4 years of litigating consumer cases and going against attorneys that figure every case is some sort of scorched earth litigation is not my idea of fun, but it was eye opening. I did find that edge ... not walking away, but a bit jaded.

Another edge I found was adrenalin ... tried a lot and found, at least for the moment, an edge at skydiving. That is a rush and if I ever think I totally have it figured out and am in control ... skydiving can be a reset ... I don't skydive a lot.

Parenthood and marriage were some other edges I had to explore. Learned a lot about relationship. And kids ... well I fell off that cliff :-). Love them to death and wouldn't take it back, but that was like finding my edge and then getting dragged way further than I wanted too :-)
If you think you have life figured our and want to take the next step, and are fearless (or stupid) enough to try it. Parenthood!
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding edges ... My current work (I tend to be very project based) is wrapping up. Found all those work edges ...
Spirituality and Fatherhood are good to work on.
I do tend to take conversational trips with my friends that they don't tend to go ... Always with love in my heart, but I love waling into the unexplored.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spirituality (Eastern religion)
Empathy/ Compassion
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall - 6' 5"
A lot of people describe me as intense, but it must be a slow burn because I don't see it ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food - fine dining and comfort food like stew ... Castagna, Bar Avignon, Beast, Ringside, Le Pigeon ... I go out to dinner a lot right now.
Movies - **Princess Bride**, Quest for the Holy Grail, Aliens.
Shows - The Unit, The Good Wife, **The Wire**, Archer, The Daily Show
Music - Not a big music guy. I listen in the car and rock out to stuff with a beat, but music is mostly an excuse for me to move: Frankie Goes to Hollywood, Depeche Mode, Juno Reactor, Macklemore,, Lady Gaga are some of what I listen to.
Beethoven's 9th and Dvorak New World are both incredible if I want to relaxed and inspired.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am pretty low need when push comes to shove. I consider retreating for the world and living inthe wilderness sometimes, but I do enjoy life's comforts.
So to give some insight.
Computer (work), Sencha (tea), crock pot (meals), friends, internet (work), a nice comfortable bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What are the hardest problems I can solve now ... usually work related.
What the next steps are in my spiritual path.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
50% - With kids watching a movie or going for a walk.
50% - Hang with friends over good food or go out dancing ... occasionally take a long weekend somewhere fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I went skydiving I thought I would be cool (to deal with the fear) to yell when I jumped. "Woo-Hoo" and "Geronimo"
According to the people on the ground it just sounded like I was screaming my head off in fear.
You should message me if
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You have an interest to meet in person. I can't figure chemistry over the net and I don't need more internet friends.

Is coffee and tea or a meal in a public place that scary? (according to my current stats ... that is too scary for at least 50% of you ...) had to check that on the net also. :-)

My take: worst case we have an awkward conversation for 15 minutes and go our separate ways ... and have a good story to share with friends.