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  • Ages 29-44
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Last online
Sep 3
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Other but it’s not important
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Outgoing and engaging, I love to meet people and have amazing conversations. Adventurous and spontaneous, I am always looking for something new and exciting to do. Optimistic and confident, I am happy with my life and my goals for the future. Energetic and exuberant, I have an endless desire to squeeze the juice out of life and make the most of every moment.

I am intensely driven to succeed in everything I do, while stopping to smell the roses along the way. I know how to have fun and find humor all around me. I have also been known to make people laugh from time to time.

I adore new experiences. I enjoy eating at new restaurants. I love to hear an awesome song for the first time and then hear it again. I have an endless thirst for knowledge. I love to travel. Visiting a new city and discovering all of its wonders is heaven to me. I have visited many places in the U.S. and can't wait to see more of it and the world.

Art and beauty make the world a tolerable place for me to inhabit. I especially appreciate and enjoy film, music, painting, and beautiful women. Stanley Kubrick, Darren Aronofsky, and David Lynch are my favorite filmmakers and 2001 is my favorite film of all time. I am also fond of Full Metal Jacket, Requiem for a Dream, The Fountain, Black Swan, Mulholland Drive, and many others.

If Salvador Dali was a boxer he would knock out the entire art universe at once with one hand tied behind his back. Though Vincent Van Gogh would put up a tough fight; Dali would win as long as he protected his ears. That is all I have to say about painting.

Music is my life. I breathe, drink, eat, and shit music. I play bass in 3 bands. I work in a music store. I am a mild-mannered salesman by day and a raging rockhero by night. I have a wonderful circle of musician friends who are truly awesome people. I absolutely love concerts. Metric, The Flaming Lips, Fleetwood Mac, U2, Pink Floyd, and Florence + The Machine are some of the favorites. Listening to music is a part of everything that I do and I am always in search of new music.

I have lived at least one other life. In this life I attended USF and received a B.S. in Computer Engineering. Then I moved to Orlando and worked as a software engineer. During this time I married my high-school sweetheart. We had a beautiful daughter and named her Rain. We separated and divorced by the time she was 3. I became a single parent. With each passing year I become more and more dissatisfied with my job and my life. After 12 years, I quit my job and embarked on a year long odyssey around the country. After much experience and reflection I created a new life for myself. My daughter is now 19 and living on her own. And I am enjoying my freedom, independence, and the endless possibilities all around me.

I can't wait for the world tour.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Fleetwood Mac, The Beatles, Metric, Stars, Death Cab for Cutie, Phoenix, Sigur Rós, Mogwai, Ludovico Einaudi, Pink Floyd, The Flaming Lips, Beck, Wilco, The Strokes

Movies: 2001, Full Metal Jacket, The Fountain, Requiem for a Dream, The Big Lebowski, Inception, Unbreakable, Mulholland Drive, Memento, Into the Wild, Hero, The Shawshank Redemption, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Princess Mononoke, The Village, Black Swan, The Wrestler, Waking Life, A Scanner Darkly, Blade Runner, Spirited Away, Fargo, Reservoir Dogs, Apocalypse Now

Books: Ancient Evenings by Norman Mailer; Guns, Germs, and Steel by Jared Diamond; Secrets of the Temple: How the Federal Reserve Runs the Country by William Greider; 1984 by George Orwell; Brave New World by Aldous Huxley

Food: Mexican, Italian, everything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The world would be a pretty dreadful place without beauty or art. Everything else pales in comparison.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be out on the town, playing a show, hanging with friends, enjoying some "me" time... who knows? There is no typical Friday night for me.