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43 Lakeland, FL Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 8
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Outgoing and engaging, I love to meet people and have amazing conversations. Adventurous and spontaneous, I am always looking for something new and exciting to do. Optimistic and confident, I am happy with my life and my goals for the future. Energetic and exuberant, I have an endless desire to squeeze the juice out of life and make the most of every moment.

I am intensely driven to succeed in everything I do, while stopping to smell the roses along the way. I know how to have fun and find humor all around me. I have also been known to make people laugh from time to time.

I adore new experiences. I enjoy eating at new restaurants. I love to hear an awesome song for the first time and then hear it again. I have an endless thirst for knowledge. I love to travel. Visiting a new city and discovering all of its wonders is heaven to me. I have visited many places in the U.S. and can't wait to see more of it and the world.

Art and beauty make the world a tolerable place for me to inhabit. I especially appreciate and enjoy film, music, painting, and beautiful women. Stanley Kubrick, Darren Aronofsky, and David Lynch are my favorite filmmakers and 2001 is my favorite film of all time. I am also fond of Full Metal Jacket, Requiem for a Dream, The Fountain, Black Swan, Mulholland Drive, and many others.

If Salvador Dali was a boxer he would knock out the entire art universe at once with one hand tied behind his back. Though Vincent Van Gogh would put up a tough fight; Dali would win as long as he protected his ears. That is all I have to say about painting.

Music is my life. I breathe, drink, eat, and shit music. I play bass in 3 bands. I work in a music store. I am a mild-mannered salesman by day and a raging rockhero by night. I have a wonderful circle of musician friends who are truly awesome people. I absolutely love concerts. Metric, The Flaming Lips, Fleetwood Mac, U2, Pink Floyd, and Florence + The Machine are some of the favorites. Listening to music is a part of everything that I do and I am always in search of new music.

I have lived at least one other life. In this life I attended USF and received a B.S. in Computer Engineering. Then I moved to Orlando and worked as a software engineer. During this time I married my high-school sweetheart. We had a beautiful daughter and named her Rain. We separated and divorced by the time she was 3. I became a single parent. With each passing year I become more and more dissatisfied with my job and my life. After 12 years, I quit my job and embarked on a year long odyssey around the country. After much experience and reflection I created a new life for myself. My daughter is now 19 and living on her own. And I am enjoying my freedom, independence, and the endless possibilities all around me.

I can't wait for the world tour.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Fleetwood Mac, The Beatles, Metric, Stars, Death Cab for Cutie, Phoenix, Sigur Rós, Mogwai, Ludovico Einaudi, Pink Floyd, The Flaming Lips, Beck, Wilco, Florence + The Machine, Russian Circles, The Strokes

Movies: 2001, Full Metal Jacket, The Fountain, Requiem for a Dream, The Big Lebowski, Unbreakable, Mulholland Drive, Memento, Into the Wild, Hero, The Shawshank Redemption, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Princess Mononoke, The Village, Black Swan, The Wrestler, Waking Life, A Scanner Darkly, Blade Runner, Spirited Away, Fargo, Reservoir Dogs, Apocalypse Now

Books: Ancient Evenings by Norman Mailer; Guns, Germs, and Steel by Jared Diamond; Secrets of the Temple: How the Federal Reserve Runs the Country by William Greider; 1984 by George Orwell; Brave New World by Aldous Huxley

Food: Mexican, Italian, everything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The world would be a pretty dreadful place without beauty or art. Everything else pales in comparison.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be out on the town, playing a show, hanging with friends, enjoying some "me" time... who knows? There is no typical Friday night for me.