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40 San Mateo, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Are you an active man with eclectic tastes? Does camping, biking and backpacking excite you as much as live music, theatre and art exhibits?

Could you fall for a woman who is the girl next-door one minute and part of the Burning Man community the next?

Would you enjoy a woman who will challenge you intellectually and physically and then be extremely comfortable being held in your arms.

Would you enjoy being with a woman who can throw together a gourmet meal as long as you bring the bottle of wine?

Do you like to whisk your woman away for a weekend of fun and come home Sunday happy and exhausted?

If this sounds interesting . . . read on:

I am Spirited, Energetic, and Balanced. I lead a very active lifestyle and truly enjoy experiencing life. I create and cherish moments and memories. I will have left the world a better place when I depart. And I am looking for the right man to share my zest for life with.

Do you like children? I have a 12 year old daughter who is the world to me. As I share custody, you and I will have lots of alone time, but she is part of the package. Because of this I can be very independent at times, but i appreciate it when a man takes initiative.

So drop me a line and tell me why we might enjoy each other’s company. I like men who know what they want and are comfortable acting or communicating on it.

To save your time and energy, know that I don’t respond to people from more than 50 miles away, nor people who do not have photos.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
truly living and experiencing life making every day the fullest
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Having fun no matter how odd, unusual, or unexpected the circumstance may be
- Being a great friend and mom
- Creating positive energy
- Cooking yummy dinner and desserts
- Being a great friend that's there for you
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Either my red hair or eyes. After that my energy and positive attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Four Agreements, The Power of Now, Siddhartha, The Five Love Languages, The Shack, Illusions, The Outdoor Survival Bible, the Tao of Pooh
Just read, Like Water for Chocolate (while in Mexico)
Writers: EE Cumings, Khalil Gibran, Rumi, Paulo Coelho, Thich Nhat Hahn, Ram Dass, Caroline Myss, Herman Hesse
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My daughter
- My chosen family (aka my amazing friends)
- Great food & music
- Outdoor adventures and all things nature related
- Love / intimacy / connection - in all their physical, sexual, spiritual, emotional & platonic forms
- Touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How to focus my time and attention in a way that creates the most impact to make life a better experience.
- Lots of silly what if questions
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's not much typical about my life. There tends to be tons of variety, color and texture.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am actually 46yo, but lowered the number to be included in more searches.
I don't look my chronological age and lead a very active fun yet balanced life.
My profile says that I reply "very selectively".....that means I delete the emails from those out of state or out of country or those way outside/under (< 34yo) age demographic.
Also if you only text, & don't see the value of phone calls, I will not continue responding to your text msgs. I personally find great value in actual human interaction
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you're a person that lives life passionately and authentically
- you understand that communication is key
- you value experiences, connection, fun and adventure
- you are emotionally available, balanced, spirited, whole-hearted and grounded
- you are ready to actually date