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30 F Somerville, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 5
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So earlier this year I got a bit overwhelmed and didn't log in here for like six months. During that time I missed a lot of messages and probably ignored a bunch of people that didn't deserve to be ignored. I'm sorry about that, honestly. It probably wasn't because you were a jerk.

I'm empathetic, affectionate, and intelligent, and I like people who share those qualities. I love music, books, good conversations, physical connection, food, tea, and adventures. My friends and family are extremely important to me.

Recently I have been told (by two separate people) that I am a "good egg" and a "smart cookie." Not only are those awesome compliments, but I'm really into this food imagery, so I'm going to continue to strive to also become a hot tamale and maybe even the whole enchilada.

I find it difficult to describe myself adequately on a dating profile. I dunno, does this really sound like me?

I'd love to find someone who can spell and write in complete sentences, who can make me laugh really, really hard, who will hold up their end of a conversation with someone who thinks quickly and talks fast, someone who's an adult when necessary but still knows and enjoys a good night of ridiculous fun, and someone who isn't going to mind if I'm not drinking (because I don't) but can fathom that I'm having fun regardless of a lack of alcohol.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a job that's reasonable but doesn't define me. It's good but not great. You know how jobs are.

I really like to find new and ridiculous things to do, like joining a dodgeball league or deciding to take up aerial silks (I'm basically in Cirque du Soleil, you guys). I go to a lot of music shows. Food is great, I enjoy cooking it and also eating it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, thinking, reading, conversing, friendship, laughing.

Also, the limbo, the hula hoop, knitting, taking silly photos. Seriously, you don't want to challenge me in a limbo match. I won so many CD singles at so many bar mitzvahs in my youth, I've learned all the tricks.

And cuddling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Boobs. DEFINITELY boobs.

No, but really, probably my hair. It's curly; sometimes it seems like there is an awful lot of it.

I'm an introvert who is often mistaken for an extrovert.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like all of these things. I like reading things, eating things, watching things, and listening to things. I especially like listening to things.

I find it overwhelming to try to list all the things I like but rest assured, I'm happy to talk about it in person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Funny moments
Fresh air and water
The people I love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just way way way too much stuff. I think I need to learn to meditate.
You should message me if
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You're fun, intelligent, and interesting.
You're honest and sincere, and have a sense of humor.
You appreciate good food and good conversation.
You want to have some adventures and are looking for someone to share them with.
You enjoy listening to great music and might sing the harmonies with me.
You have something to say!

Also, although it's possible that I might want to see you naked at some point in the undefined future, that time is not now. So, you know, no dick pics. Save that for when it's not creepy. :)

I like getting messages that indicate that you've seen something on here that you like or want to respond to - something beyond a "hey cutie." I promise my messages to you will be equally well thought out.