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31 Somerville, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I'm empathetic, affectionate, and intelligent, and I like people who share those qualities. I love music, books, good conversations, physical connection, food, tea, and adventures. My friends and family are extremely important to me.

Dating profiles are hard. I dunno, does this really sound like me?

I'd love to find someone who can write in complete sentences, who can make me laugh really, really hard, who will hold up their end of a conversation with someone who thinks quickly and talks fast, someone who's an adult when necessary but still knows and enjoys a good night of ridiculous fun, and someone who isn't going to mind if I'm not drinking (because I don't) but can fathom that I'm having fun regardless of a lack of alcohol. Don't be too buttoned up - be a little weird sometimes, you know?

I like being in the air, which is why I started doing aerials. I like being strong. I love the city - I like the culture and everything that happens here and the mix of people and all the things and events that I have access to by virtue of living here. But I also love getting out of the city and having some quiet time and some space and fresh air.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a job that's reasonable but doesn't define me. It's good but not great. You know how jobs are.

I really like to find new and ridiculous things to do, like joining a dodgeball league or deciding to learn new circus skills (I'm basically in Cirque du Soleil, you guys). I go to a lot of music shows, both local and touring. Food is great, I enjoy cooking it and also eating it.

I'm a big fan of Somerville; I just bought a house here, so I am always happy to go out and check out new places now that I'm tied to the city for the next 30 years. I'm also happy to go check out new places that are not in Somerville.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, thinking, reading, conversing, friendship, laughing.

The limbo, the hula hoop, knitting, taking silly photos. Seriously, you don't want to challenge me in a limbo match. I won so many CD singles at so many bar mitzvahs in my youth, I've learned all the tricks.

Also cuddling, spending time upside down, shoveling snow like a goddamn boss, and building flat pack furniture.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Boobs. DEFINITELY boobs.

No, but really, probably my hair. It's curly; sometimes it seems like there is an awful lot of it.

I'm an introvert who is often mistaken for an extrovert.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like all of these things. I like reading things, eating things, watching things, and listening to things. I especially like listening to things.

I find it overwhelming to try to list all the things I like but rest assured, I'm happy to talk about it in person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Funny moments
Fresh air and water
Fun, interesting, and creative people
Something fuzzy and squishy to hug, like a stuffed animal, a cat, a dog, or a person

That's more than six isn't it? Shit, guess I'm fired.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just way way way too much stuff. I think I need to learn to meditate.
You should message me if
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You're fun, intelligent, and interesting.
You're honest and sincere, and have a sense of humor.
You appreciate good food and good conversation.
You want to have some adventures and are looking for someone to share them with.
You enjoy listening to great music and might sing the harmonies with me.
You have something to say
You like cheese and are willing to eat lots of it with me
You can handle a little bit of weird
You are, in fact, just a little bit weird.

Also, although it's possible that I might want to see you naked at some point in the undefined future, that time is not now. So, you know, no dick pics. Save that for when it's not creepy. :)

I like getting messages that indicate that you've seen something on here that you like or want to respond to - something beyond a "hey cutie." I promise my messages to you will be equally well thought out.