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32 F Houston, TX

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I was a pianist for most of my life and am working on my singing (no one should have to currently suffer from it). Karaoke anyone? My most vivid memories as a child are very basic- sitting atop the bluffs in San Francisco; picking apricots at an apricot farm and having the sticky fragrant pulp drip down my chin as the fruit entered my mouth; doing backdives off the side of the swimming pool. For more insights into my subjective life, look at the "Journal" section. I think of myself kind of "tri-state"- I've spent equal time in three very different parts of the country.
What I’m doing with my life
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For seven years, I was a neuro-imaging scientist-engineer at work (fMRI, MRS, DTI, etc), but I've wrapped that up that part of psychology for now, and am ready to move on to my next big career adventure. Before that, I made my living as a professional musician. I study languages-french, spanish, mandarin, read the New Yorker, Harper's, Economist, all sorts of books, attempt to make art in my spare time. Ultimately, along with continually learning, the most important thing and goal for me is to- through self-expression and listening, connect with other people. Oh, and to do more exercise. :)
I’m really good at
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the piano (in the past), giving backrubs, writing (when the occasion calls for it), making special dishes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) no one favorite- but I love the classics of western lit (fitzgerald, faulkner, hemingway, steinbeck), contemporary authors (Amis, Bolano, Murakami, Bryson). I love social science and history books, as well as more popular science books (mind wide open, proust was a neuroscientist, books by Bill Bryson, etc.).
B) 12 Monkeys, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, Lawrence of Arabia, East of Eden, Last King of Scotland, Lives of Others, Science of Sleep, 2 Days in Paris, list goes on and on
C) Curb Your Enthusiasm, Downton Abbey, Portlandia, No Reservations, House, now, Naked and Afraid!
D) everything from Robin Thicke to James Blake to Tchaikovsky to world music to modeselektor. I like all kinds of music- my pandora list is too long.
E) french food, Mediterranean food, southern comfort food, anything using fresh and local ingredients
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
English language, hot showers, internet, creative compassionate friends, good sleep cycles, good eats and drinks (not in any particular order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
human nature
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spending time with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is my third line of work, and the last two were completely unrelated to what I do now.
You should message me if
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you think we could have some meaningful connection whether it be as a compatriate, teacher, student, soulmate, friend, or adopted sibling. :)