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31 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:43pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
You, eh, like to chhhave ze fun, yes? Well ladies, the stalker charges have been dropped... so I'm free to continue funding all Manhattan meal plans!

I'm NOT creepy, socially awkward, or scared of the real world. This is online dating after all. Ok, ok, maybe a little creepy.

I love getting lost in a crowd of strangers with a backpack and a passport. Big fan of beaches, mountains, ruins and old cities. I've lived in England, The Ukraine, briefly in Spain, and backpacked through many more. After +/- 12 years in NYC I still love exploring this city! Deep down I'm an optimist but first impressions will likely come off as cynical. I keep up with current events, politics, and just might be a "news junkie." I believe in taking care of myself and keep up a fairly active lifestyle. Oh, and love the food! Forever immersing myself in this city's culinary delights and I won't stop until I'm gastronomically satiated! Bbq's, chi-chi restaurants, etc. I'm happiest when full. Sadly, I'm still working on my Momofuku Ko reserv's (if you think I just insulted your mom, stop reading !?!).

I spend the better part of my weekdays behind a distressed debt trading desk and/or entertaining clients so my weekdays tend to be very structured, but my nights and weekends tend to be more... festive. I like theatre, museums, galleries, concerts, central park, and I'm equally content at a dive bar or a chi chi lounge. I can hold my own on the dance floor - for a guy. I wanted Obama (1st time around) and I thoroughly regret it... I'm fiscally conservative and socially liberal but I love dating left-wingers so I can point out just how wrong you are! So if you want to know where to get the best martini in NYC - let's talk.
What I’m doing with my life
I would like to touch down in most inhabitable countries and eat a truly local meal. I would love to be able to snow board down a double black diamond (working my way up to black - hey! I just started).

I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have -Thomas Jefferson
I’m really good at
Planning vacations, picking restaurants and lounges, picking restaurants and lounges in foreign places!

Wanna find the best gin martini in NYC? I'm your guy.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm staring into their window late at night... Then my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Everything is illuminated, Siddhartha, Empire of Wealth
Usual Suspects, Schindler's List, Braveheart (though I can't stand Mel Gibson), Matrix, Das Expirament, Scarface, Casino, My Cousin Vinny, Black Book
Not Olives
The six things I could never do without
Shake Shack
Caymus Cab
My bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and my next vacation
On a typical Friday night I am
Planning a group outing w/ friends or reading and sleeping. Depends on the prior 4 days
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It all started with a big bang: BANG!!. The top of the champaign bottle flew right up into the air. The bubbly was flowing all night. Mr & Mrs S got tired and went to bed. But Alas, Mr S was not sleepy. MrS was not sleepy. So they got it on and on and who used protection back then? So fast forward 13 years and: "Damn right you were an accident! Too much booze on a cruise ship & no condom = you... but it's the best mistake i've ever made." -Dad ...and then he poured me my next Bordeaux
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're independent, outgoing, loud (but not obnoxious), and full of life. I'm particularly interested in women that are more creative than I - I am a Finance Geek after all.... Huge plus if your essay says more than "I don't know what to say / I have the bestest friends / I have a great sense of humor, etc." Also a plus if you don't mind spending a week hiking a trail in Costa Rica (just an example... haven't done it yet but looking forward to it!)