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27 F Guelph, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:51am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
**edit: I'll be back in the GTA shortly. I really need to update this profile soon and I will. **

I'm charming,, sarcastic, and passionate, and I consciously work to be open-minded, and to constantly re-examine my assumptions. I'm interested in people who are similarly open-minded, interested in challenging themselves and changing their lives to become better people; at the same time, excessively cheesy, always optimistic people get on my nerves. I'm pretty cynical about the state of the world, but that doesn't mean I think we shouldn't work to change it. I think words and actions matter, and that we should do what we can (which is more than you think) to make the experiences of those around us more positive.

Sense of humour is really really really important to me, if we don't mesh on that, it's not going to happen.

On that note, I often don't respond to messages, this is because I'm confident we won't click for some reason. It doesn't mean I think you're a bad person, I just don't want to waste either of our time.

Ideally, I would like to meet a feminist, vegan, environmentalist, hippy guy, but I'm open to people who do not fit into all of those categories.

I am really interested in learning about gender, food, animal rights, oppression, and alternative lifestyle models (like how we can not ruin the earth), and the intersectionality of oppression, and you should probably have thought about some of these things if you want to talk to me.

I'm a big fan of naps, especially with my two cats.

Update: Okay, I changed my height to 5'9, but I'm pretty sure that I'm 5'8 and a lot of guys out there are kidding themselves. Either way, I'm tall-ish. I don't mind dating someone shorter, I've done it before.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a fully-qualified (even over-qualified) high school teacher, but because the Ontario teaching system is impossible to get into, I'm not working as a teacher right now :( I'm doing some other teaching-related and -unrelated stuff in the meantime and waiting it out, because teaching is super important to me and I think it's worth waiting for.

I'm really interested in gender roles/feminism (which to me includes the idea that the current system is bad for men too, no gender is permitted/encouraged to be fully human when we're put into boxes) and am vegan, which is really important to me. You don't have to be vegan/vegetarian to message me (although it helps!), but I do need someone who is open-minded about it.
I’m really good at
being friends with cats, cooking, making awesome lesson plans, sarcastic comments, calling you on your shit, school, reading, and remembering lines from movies/shows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Too many to choose, love Stephen King/Richard Bachman, Ender's Game, Calvin & Hobbes, & HP though. Also a bunch of really obscure English major stuff that sounds pretentious.

Movies: "" but...I love Good Will Hunting, Rounders, The Day After Tomorrow (guilty pleasure), Jurassic Park, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, thrillers, The Silence of the Lambs, Toy Story, Moulin Rouge, Cabin in the Woods, The Boondock Saints...

Shows: Supernatural lately, also Buffy, The L Word, Angel, Sports Night, The West Wing, Grey's Anatomy (the early seasons), Friends, Glee

Music: Indie, folk, (classic) rock, country, alternative, pop - specifically I really like Wintersleep, Mumford and Sons, Ani Difranco, Queen, Miranda Lambert, Regina Spektor, Of Monsters and Men, etc. etc.

Food: bread, vegan sandwiches, vegan pad thai, love trying new things
Oh, and wraps. Why are they so tasty?
The six things I could never do without
1. My cats
2. My sister
3. Good books
4. A comfortable bed
5. Shower
6. Delicious food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- How to limit the harm we (and I) do in the world
- Veganism
- Feminism
- Teaching
- How to get a teaching job
- What other kind of work I should do in the mean time
- What I'm going to cook this week
- Tattoo planning
- My future
On a typical Friday night I am
At the end of my work week, which is actually Saturday right now, probably drinking a casual beer or two, watching awesome tv, hanging out with my friends that I actually like...relaxing things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me. On that note I've kept some responses private due to the nature of my job. If they're important to you, ask, but don't be rude. No one wants that creepy-out-of-the-blue-intimate question from randomguy6969.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 20–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- you're a feminist, vegan, or both!
- you're both charming/witty and nerdy...but actually charming, think Sam from "Supernatural" not Andrew from "Buffy" (although he's a great character)
- you have looked at more than my picture and think we have things in common that we should talk about
- you have something more interesting to say than "hey cutie" or "what's up wit u 2nite"
- You didn't answer "yes" to "Do you think women are obligated to shave their legs?", and also didn't answer fake no: "No: but it's gross if they don't"