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55 Sierra Vista, AZ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 26
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Two-year college

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Trying to start this fresh, so read the last section first. For some people that will save them time and they can move on and for the ones who say ok, that's cool, send a message.

Having grown up in Northwest NJ - I left Rutgers College after my first year. I moved to Houston, then various parts of the Southwest, coming to call Sierra Vista home. I took a haitus and spent 5 years in WI, but came back to SE Arizona in hopes of getting warm again. Divorced with 2 adult children, I retired from being a paralegal manager for a law office, after 30+ years in the legal field due to disability.
What I’m doing with my life
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Re-learning how to live without kids at home and no job requirements. In the spring and summer I am usually in my herb garden or taking a drive in my Miata enjoying the AZ sunshine. In the winter, the dvd plays endless formats and streams Dr. Who, Farscape, Star Trek ... Or I am reading the current eBook from Grisham, Patterson or my latest sci fi find. Hey, it's wintertime and i don't like being cold, so I am snuggled under the blankies. I know, I am in AZ, but they call it the high desert for a reason.

Whatever the season I tend to walk to take care of errands or to wander the Farmers Market. I enjoy smiling at people and striking up conversations whether they are selling their products at the market or waiting in line at the post office.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I feel like doing - growing my herb garden, cooking, road trips, and procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends on who they are and why they are noticing me. Most compliment my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love science fiction, legal mysteries, and most other types of mysteries. I have been a Star Trek fan since I was 10. I like music from the 80s and 90s, Gin Blossoms, Sister Hazel, Journey, Cheap Trick, Stevie Nicks, Bon Jovi and more currently, The Fray, New Republic.

Food, for me is less about what type of food and more about it being good food. I am a good cook so rarely eat Italian out since I prefer my own. But I like good Mexican restaurants, good pizza, and desserts, and I love chicken fried steak at truck stops. I don't like sushi.. Food is about flavor, and creativity, not price.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from air, water, shelter, and food ... What I don't want to be without is:

My Miata,
A good book
A reason to smile
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Keeping warm - winter is here!. Is there is any place in AZ with a decent size town that doesn't get cold?
How soon will it be warm enough to take the top down.

What I miss most in living alone is having someone around to talk with about the everyday things - the news, movies or music, whatever has caught my attention - and I miss companionship - having someone to do things with especially roadtrips. Prefer it when someone else makes the coffee.

I can have fun cuddling on the couch watching a movie; enjoy sitting in the sun reading a book; be exhilarated driving down the road to somewhere I have never been (just don't believe in honoring the speed limit); be excited over cooking a meal together: or be content sitting on the mountainside watching a gorgeous sunset. For me, life requires some of each in order to have balance.

I don't want someone to try and "fix" me or "save" me or "think" for me. It's not your job, just appreciate me for who I am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching TV - The result of living alone. I think about the yard work and household chores but find that a book attracts my attention first.
You should message me if
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Your are interested in starting a conversation, taking the time to find out if we are friends or potentially something more, and meeting a real person who has foibles and virtues.

Yes, the pictures are current! From 2012 to the end of 2014.

I put this account on hold after ignoring it for a long time, so you may have messaged me before, I may even have responded, but it's been over a year and half so I will admit, I am unlikely to remember.

A note that doesn't fit anywhere else. Need a section for the negatives, so if these are issues for you, please pass on by -

1) I quit smoking cigarettes over a year ago, so substituted vaping.

2) Not into religion and don't want to be lectured about it.

3) I like 'Obamacare', without it I wouldn't be able to get health insurance.

4) I believe adults should be able to love and marry whomever makes them happy.

5) I haven't been in here in awhile and my computer usage is limited so quick responses are not physically feasible.

6) I am disabled due to bilateral neuropathy, tendonitis and CTS. Four surgeries on 9 nerves and they couldn't fix me. Neither could alternative medicine. I am not scamming the government.

7) Disability is real and the side affect of constant pain is insomnia. Sometimes I make plans and can't follow through.

I am actually a fun person who enjoys life, but after the above you probably think, "she has a chip on her shoulder." I don't. But after two years of other people's comments a few too many people have told me I look normal so what's my problem? So, I am putting it out there up front. Also, maybe all that work in law offices is rubbing off, so no complaint folks, you have been fully informed of the potential side affects of leaving me a message - a possible long silence as I am not on the computer or -
the possibility of interesting conversation, an enjoyable time with a vivacious, intelligent, witty, sometimes crazy, woman that you like despite the defects. :-)