I was so surprised to meet 'him' here! I have tried online dating off and on for over a decade and never gone out with anyone more than a couple of times that I met online. I'm now in the best relationship of my life with a man who contacted me here late March! The change came when I 'believed' in having the relationship I wanted, and when I wrote honestly and not overly sweetly, who I am. Surprisingly, it can work to meet an amazing partner online!! I am more surprised than anyone. Keep it real, open your heart, be willing, give!