Looking for someone with a reasonable amount of intelligence (bonus points if you like bar trivia). This doesn't mean you have to be Ada Lovelace, but vapid, air head, valley girl types need not apply. Independent, strong personalities do best, as I have one, and those who don't often find themselves lost, or worse, left behind.
I prefer to get out and do something over drinks or coffee. You can get to know someone over bowling, darts, or pool and have fun doing it. I don't find interviews, nor 'interview dates' enjoyable. If you don't like any of the activities I've listed, feel free to suggest your own. I'm pretty open to anything.
If you visit and don't send at least a quick note, don't expect me to write you, I won't.
Old school romance lives here, flowers is my favorite f-word. I'll get the door for you and take your jacket, not because I think you need me to, but because I think you deserve to have those things done for you.
I'll remember your birthday, and don't need a holiday or a reason to bring you out to dinner other than we're hungry.
I have children, and am not looking for any more of my own. I don't mind if you have your own.
I get my children often, and will change 'soft plans' I have with you to spend time with them. If you don't understand why, then you're probably not what I'm looking for. I do understand if the situation is reversed. In fact, I find that incredibly desirable.
I'm intelligent, opinionated, funny, stubborn, and sometimes obnoxious, always loyal, honest, and picky, not nitpicky, choosy picky.