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47 M Woonsocket, RI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:53pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think this is re-write #1128. After a couple of disturbing interactions with some "well intentioned" members, I had removed all this for a while. In the interest of avoiding a repeat of those interactions, I'm taking this space to give my 'wish list' of things I think make a great partner. You don't have to have all or any of these to say hello.

Independent - if you're unsure why, we probably aren't a good fit.
Decisive - if you can't share this responsibility, wpaagf (see above)
Communicative - if you don't know the difference between talking and communicating, wpaagf
Adventurous - if you're not willing to try new things, new restaurants, some new outdoor activity, etc. (Don't worry, I've jumped out of enough planes to last a lifetime, I was thinking more like kayaking, zip lining, ropes course...)
Confident - I have a very strong personality, you need to be able to hold your own.
Intelligent - You don't need to be Ada Lovelace, but you should be reasonably intelligent.
Positive - if your glass is always half empty, wpaagf. (Been there, done that. You don't always have to see the bright side in every situation, but you should at least try to do so more often than not. Negative Nellies need not apply.) *Bonus points if you can help me make that an alliterative sentence.*

I had a great Mom, she was amazing, not looking to replace her.

I've raised 6 children, the last two are still in progress. Not looking for any new ones of my own, but open to yours if you have them. Two of the 6 were not biologically mine.

《Watch this space》
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, trying to live up to the legacy my parents left me, my friends say I'm doing a great job, but ultimately my children will be the judges of that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking for help matching clothes. Somedays it's hard to tell I'm color-blind, other days not so hard. ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Pretty wide range here. I read a lot of what my kids read these days. Listen to all genres of music. Love that my kids are into the Marvel movies, and that they think I'm awesome because I know so much about the characters.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I being as good a parent to my children as mine were to me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a good one, I'm with my two little ones enjoying watching them grow in their own persons. Otherwise, I'm probably out with friends or home wondering where my last first date is hiding.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've asked for directions...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You actually want to meet in person. I'm not big on the penpals thing. Trollers need not apply. You have one or two of the qualities I listed above, or some really cool ones I missed. You're available during the week, or don't mind that I'm only available every other weekend. You're confident enough to write me first.