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57 Port Hadlock, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:56am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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A friend just texted me- "You are such a couple kinda woman." And she is spot on! No fun by yourself. I share. I support. I'm cooperative. I thrive on partnership, couple activities- dining out, backgammon, kissing. Two for one deals.

I might be cursed, I think blessed to have found two adoring and committed husbands in my lifetime. I lost the first after 22 years of marriage to cancer. The second was an Internet find through American Singles, so I know the system works. He died unexpectedly in a tragic motorcycle accident after only 5 years. I treasured both relationships, and value the closeness and unshakeable bond that is possible with a partner. Is it possible to discover that a third time?

And so I take time to ponder... what WAS it about me that caught Chuck's eye nearly 10 years ago? WHAT do I offer that made him tell me he was the luckiest man on earth? Maybe it was my sense of adventure- after two weeks of Internet banter and one date, I invited him to come along on a cruise to Mexico! I can't get any more spontaneous than that. Willingness to help? Maybe. I tiled his bathroom and replaced his kitchen. Sincere? Intelligent? Considerate? Funny? Responsible? Kind-hearted?Generous? Ethical? Independent? Hard Working? Honest? Creative? Crafty? I'd say all of that. I know close friends have often remarked that I am "solid" and the "strongest woman they know". Truly, my strength comes solely from the intensity of the relationships I have shared and the commitments I make. I'm the kind of gal you would be proud to take home to meet Mom!

Life is about enjoying all the opportunities we have, experiencing the great wonders of the world. And it seems to be more enjoyable when shared. Travel- a drive to the coast or mountains. Longer adventures to Europe or the Caribbean. I'm referred to as "the Travel Queen" by family and friends. I'm known for getting really great deals to great places. When I get there, I can't just sit by the pool. There is a rental car involved. If I'm near water, there will be a catamaran adventure, snorkeling, parasailing or whale watching. I had a black marlin on the hook one time in Zihuatanejo. I circled Aruba on a Harley. I saw the sunrise from the top of Haleakala on Maui. I can't imagine doing any of that on my own.

For those who wonder how Salem Oregon can be so close to the Olympic Peninsula, I bought a house in Port Hadlock! It may take a few YEARS to sell the farm and pack up, but my latest plan is to move to an incredibly beautiful part of the world, discover new adventures and spend my time LIVING instead of just existing. Renovations are in progress.

And so I press on... in search of that man of my dreams. I need someone with a sense of humor, to be able to laugh at me and himself. He will be educated, employed or financially stable. I appreciate a man that can speak English and write full sentences with punctuation and spelling (hopefully, this requirement leaves out foreign scammers looking for donations!). I NEED him to be tall- over 6'2"preferred. (That isn't optional- please don't respond if you are short!!) He has to be open and honest, and I'd be lying if I didn't mention that 'bad boy" twinkle in his eye... Is that you?
What I’m doing with my life
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I design kitchens for Lowe's in Salem to keep the creditors away. When I take a vacation, it is somewhere AWAY. I love to travel and favorite destinations include Mexico, the Caribbean, Europe.
I own a house with acreage. I have llamas and alpacas to control the vegetation and keep me entertained. The new place has only a third of an acre... I'm going to part with my herd. Without a mortgage and a hay bill, I'll be able to RETIRE! More time to garden, fix the house and travel.
I treasure each opportunity I have to give back to the community. My favorite charity is the local Fire station- I look forward to dropping off garbage bags full of toys for the local kids each Christmas.
I’m really good at
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home improvement.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book- "The Art of Racing in the Rain". Movies: "The Wizard of Oz" and "The Bucket List". Shows: "Grey's Anatomy" and "Scandal". Music- it's an eclectic mix of Toby Keith, Journey and Coldplay. (no jazz or rap). Food- Anything that swims- crab, lobster, rainbow trout. Chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Companionship. A vehicle. A credit card. A saws-all. Chocolate. Kisses lasting longer than 10 seconds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Rearranging my new walls in Washington. The house is desperate for my touch. Can't wait to show the realtor what I did to my house!
Finding a new long-term companion. Looking at profiles on line, and wondering why people post blurry, grainy, crooked or otherwise uncomplimentary photos of themselves. Looking at same photos and wishing I could give these people a haircut or shave...
Finding someone to snowbird with me in a warm winter climate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at work, home or out shopping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It takes awhile for me to admit my private details!
You should message me if
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You're looking for a sincere, honest, respectable and trustworthy companion who loves to laugh. You like to travel.