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44 Saint Paul, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:35am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Note: I'm living in MN at least through Spring '15 caring for my father who has cancer. See below for more info on my location-independent income stream and desire for a home base more than for a place to settle down.

** Everything on here is 100% honest. Who the hell thinks its a good idea to start a relationship with a lie?**

I have no interest in a normal American life -- No kids. No suburbs. No boss. No "settling down" (a home base seems more appropriate).
Life is too short, right?

A Vision of My Future...

*Live simply
*Live fully!
*Live healthy
*Home base near a quality ski area and dive deep into places and cultures around the globe.
*A passive income through business ownership or rental income that allows the freedom to explore.

Of course this is all flexible as I value a partnership and all that it entails, but you get the vibe I'm going for.

Would you ever live on a boat? :)

I am caring, intelligent, thoughtful, honest, non-materialistic, athletic, adventurous and am looking to meet a similar sort of woman -- preferably one who is fit, fun, happy, healthy and appreciates the arts. I love to ski (downhill but also some xc) and bicycle. I'm also a big fan of the arts and culture.

More about me here on my blog...

If you're interested in this sort of life, let's talk. Life's adventures are better when shared.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Big Picture: Living fully and treading lightly.
Daily: Trying to get my small business kicking ass so I can spend more time skiing & deeply exploring the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Downhill skiing,
practical urban bicycling,
creative problem solving,
naming 1990s indie rock songs in 3 notes or less.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my glasses which I have strategically placed right in front of my eyes, thereby forcing further interaction with the unsuspecting noticer. Hopefully then my wit and charm are given a chance to shine through.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Road, A Moveable Feast, Blue Highways, Grapes of Wrath, Giants in the Earth, Green Eggs and Ham, Our Band Could Be Your Life, Life on the Mississippi, The Compleat Angler, A House in Bali, Everything That Remains

Dwell, Ode, Outside

My Architect, The Big Lebowski, American Movie, Nashville, This is Spinal Tap, Bottle Rocket, Slapshot, Pump Up the Volume, Bottle Rocket, MST3K,
Caddyshack, Smokey & The Bandit, Butch Cassidy & The Sundance Kid, 2001: A Spade Odyssey, Lost in Translation

Alejandro Escovedo, Uncle Tupelo, Run Westy Run, Neko Case, Replacements, Arcwelder, Arcade Fire, Joy Division, Yo La Tengo, Karate, Jenny Lewis, Build My Gallows High, Glenn Miller, Frank Sinatra, Guided by Voices, Calexico, Archers of Loaf, Pogues, Whiskeytown, Hold Steady, Neutral Milk Hotel
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Downhill skiing
Indie Rock Music
Quality design/architecture
Cold beer with good friends
Bicycle (my primary mode of urban transport)
Corrective lenses
Not conforming to arbitrary rules or norms
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can contribute to making the world a better place while maximizing the life experience of myself and those close to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Likely one or more of the following:

-having a couple beers with friends
-seeing live music around town
-enjoying a lovely evening outside
-at home, probably reading or surfin' the net
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once owned a Rick Astley album.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You enjoy skiing/snowboarding and have an abnormal view on how your life should be lived.

If, like me, you're looking for a needle in a haystack and typed in any search keywords like these: nomad, wanderlust, minimalism/minimalist, simple living, meditation, yoga, buddhism/buddhist, global, wellness.