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  • Ages 30-46
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:31pm
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I hate Myers-Briggs, and was expressly forbidden to administer the test in graduate school when I started consulting. I don't care what combination of alphabet letters you are and am amazed how many people have it in their profiles. I won't hold it against you if you're proud of being a ABCMNOP, but I may lecture you about psychometrics.

And gentlemen, if you send a one line message, I won't respond. Does that ever work?

Rants aside, I'm a bratty know-it all who loves debates and intellectual conversation. I am nerdy, play board games, rpgs, and Ingress - maybe obsessively. I already have tickets to Star Wars and I have a thing for trains. I don't play video games or cosplay, so I'm not that nerdy. I love camping and being outside in the quiet. I hate driving and prefer to travel by train.

I want to grow up to be a 1950s house wife.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Researcher at a think tank.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not filling out these questions, that's for one.

I'd like to say everything I try because I put my heart into it.

(Did I just contradict myself right there?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I'd also say my tits, but I want to appear classy and not draw unwarranted attention.....

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm one of those nerdy girls who always has their nose in a book and I don't own a television and I will read just about anything, but have an affinity for Neil Gaimen and Christopher Moore. Right now I'm reading Them Southern Reach trilogy, and I find OK Cupid profiles morbidly fascinating.

I'm addicted to music; I grew up in a family that plays bluegrass with a Dad who let me skip school to take me to concerts, my first being Def Leppard and Joan Jett. My all time favorites include The Doors, Ruby Starr and Grey Ghost, Johnny Cash, Darrell Scott, The Constellations, Ari Hest, Elliott Smith, Dawes, Bill Withers, Rilo Kiley, Portishead, Morcheeba, and Bran Van 3000.

And I like food. I'll eat all sorts of it, except sauerkraut.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mother. My dog. Photographs. Smartrip card. Blush.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I need to do. I stay super busy and the to do list stays exhaustive. I tend to be a workaholic because I love my job and I volunteer like it's a second job. Writing is the third job. I know when to tone it down, however, I just don't like idleness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing board games. Please pass me the lady.
You should message me if
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You have a Breeze card or know some great places to camp.