I got divorced and spent a couple years hanging out. I spent time with my kids. I spent time with my friends, and went out almost every Friday night with my co-workers. I had a blast!
I eventually met up with the woman I had a crush on in the 4th grade (classmates.com is great!). She was going through a divorce and we hit it off immediately - maybe a little too quickly. Got married a year later. We both realized we fell in love with the image/idea of who we were in the 4th grade - not our present selves. It turned out that we didn't have all that much in common.
So - here I am divorced again. Maybe I'm just not cut out for marriage. In any case, I'm looking forward to going out and having fun. I'm not currently looking for a long-term relationship. I just want to do things. Eat good food (especially sushi). Have some drinks (alcoholic or not). See movies. Go hiking. Go bike riding. Whatever. I end up having fun with just about anything I do.
I am clever, cuddly, and cynical.