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28 Raleigh, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Used up
Strictly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm an ISTJ: a gamergeek with a quirky sense of humor. I'm a writer, strategist, comedian, and an orator by nature. I often turn my abilities to satirizing society and current events in order to make people think about things they generally take for granted.

I find "normal" people confusing. I get along well with damaged (but not self-destructive) people; those who have issues and see the world differently, but who want to make their lives the best they can, regardless.

I'm disabled. I'm bipolar and an abuse survivor. As a result, I have PTSD with associated agoraphobia, along with a smattering of other colorful diagnoses. In addition, I have kyphosis and degenerative disc disorder. There are no neurological issues yet, but chronic pain is limiting.

I prefer a quieter life than most people these days. My ultimate goal is a long term, loving relationship. As a sapiosexual, I'm primarily attracted to intellect, wit, and personality rather than appearance. To me, the highest values in life are intelligence, compassion, logic, honesty, humor, respectfulness, and loyalty.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I don't seek a "normal" modern American life. I don't care about the same things most people do. A partner, a few good friends, things to learn, a comfy home, love, sex, humor, and zombie gear are all I really need. Too much other stuff gets in the way of the important things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning. I don't trust anything unless I have a backup plan for the backup plan. I'm a prepper by nature, and I'm frequently voted most likely to survive a disaster, which surprises even me given my physical limitations. I guess people think highly of my other knowledge and skills.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: nonfiction (science, history, world religions, philosophy, survival, political theory), quirky novels, satire.

Shows: South Park, True Blood, BS!, Twin Peaks, Always Sunny, Justified, Star Trek, Criminal Minds, Archer, Bob's Burgers, HIMYM, Hell on Wheels, Big Bang Theory, Family Guy (et al).

Movies: Star Wars, The Big Lebowski, Office Space, Fight Club (more of a TV series guy, generally).

Food: sushi, Cajun, Indian, Thai, southern comfort food

Music: rock, bluegrass, metal, EDM, trance, classical, some country, jazz, blues, Celtic, punk, chants, J-pop/rock. A bit of everything.

Games: Dragon Age, Fallout, ME, CoD, BF, Rock Band, Bioshock, Skyrim, Infamous, Uncharted. Anything FPS, strategy, or RPG.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) interwebz and books
2) friends, a life partner, and a loyal zombie team
3) videogames
4) comfy back supports and resistance bands
5) e-cigs (helped me finally quit cigarettes!)
6) humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Thinking about consciousness is like trying to bite your own teeth.
- What strangers I meet would look like during orgasm.
- What is the opposite of a duck?
- How can a system gain objectivity when all observers are within it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Somewhere nearby that's not crowded with people. I'd rather play cards at my usual karaoke joint, videogame with a friend at home, laze about on the couch watching Netflix with someone, or sit on the porch debating, joking, and listening to music than go to a crowded club or show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy a variety of kinks.
You should message me if
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Yes: gamers, geeks, freaks, nerds, pariahs, "damaged" people

No: homo/hoplophobes, addicts, criminals, douchecanoes

People never know what to say at first online. So, just start talking like we've known each other casually for few days; skip the awkward intro and say something random. Here's a cat to sweeten the deal: =^_^=.