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LolitaLoves

52 / F / straight / Single

Broomfield, Colorado

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
4' 10" (1.47m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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I am intelligent, wicked, and quick-witted!.

My Self-Summary

Thank you for entering my lair. While I am a bit of a wild spirit, and a free-roaming intellect, I am very, very selective and I am always respectful, so you will not find me rude.

I am an enigma, a force of and with nature, a puzzle unto myself that you cannot unlock, as I belong to the house of tomorrow.

I am very well educated and love high spirited, high-octane conversations on a variety of topics, and the more they involve politics, the stock market or financial topics, religious views and / or are otherwise based in topical or esoteric current events or foreign policy, the better. Stimulate my brain and you have WON me over!

While I desire someone with whom I share common ground, I enjoy having a certain amount of differing opinions, as it is debate among intelligent equals that keeps the mind sharp, and sharp minds that make for incredible, mind-blowing passion.

I love long walks -- simple walking is so underrated -- fishing, camping, great books and movies, theatre, plays and live music in any form. Really, once the companionship is there, and we are both on the same wavelength, with good solid chemistry, who cares what we are doing? You name it, I'll be there. Except motorcycles.

What I’m doing with my life

I am outside of my life right now. I am searching for something and I am not quite sure what it is. The thing I search for is more than just a relationship. That is all that I know about it.

I sit above my life and watch it wind along on its road, knowing I am waiting for the other dimension or discovery or purpose to reveal itself, but not knowing when that will happen or what it will be, or be about.

And NO, I am not from Boulder! I am a perfectly normal, rational person and am as surprised that this is happening to me as you likely are to be reading about it. I can almost see you there, arched eyebrow, thinking, "Oh, she is one of THOSE people, is she?]] The answer is, "No, I am NOT."

Other than that, I am a writer and musician. The writing is primary. I am at work on a biography that I am ghostwriting for a client. I play flute, piano, and some guitar in my spare time. I also sing.

I’m really good at

The first things people usually notice about me

People always seem to notice that I am observant, but that comes later during the first meeting. I think first, they notice my intelligence, followed by my petite but attractive figure, and then I think it is my blue eyes and sense of humor.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Everything Tom Clancey has written, except his non-fiction works. John LeCarre, Nelson DeMille, Patricia Cornwell up until she started the cop novels, then she just became unreadable in my opinion. John Steinbeck, a true Master! Cormac McCarthy, read "No Country For Old Men", especially if you saw the movie and think the movie was great, because you are missing almost HALF of the impact and profundity of the plot. Movies: Shawshank Redemption, The Matrix, Dr. Zhivago, Napoleon Dynamite, The Boondock Saints, Apocalypse Now, Farenheit 9/11, Primary Colors, China Syndrome. Music: Rock, all genres, and blues, old Delta style. Rap, Eminem and Jay-Z particularly.

The six things I could never do without

1) My children
2) My self-esteem
3) Sex and lovemaking (they are two different things)
with a man that matters to me, and to whom I matter
4) Communication that is open and honest in my relationships,
and most important, communication that is NOT WITHHELD.
5) My ability to walk everyday
6) Coffee

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Two primary themes:

1) It is widely accepted that men as a group dislike being
perceived as weak. Yet so many men, when confronted
by conflict from their woman, become passive-aggressive.
But this style makes a man cower from the woman. I find
this an interesting conundrum.
It stymies all
communication and guarantees failure in the relationship,
yet it is the ONLY move so very many men will choose
when confronted with a conflict by their woman.
Intriguing!

2) How will we ever end the stifling global and racial hatred
we hold in our hearts for one another?

On a typical Friday night I am

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

If there are private things you wish to know, within reason, just ask. I am a fairly candid person, again, within reason.

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