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31 Invercargill, New Zealand Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 24–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:20am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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People tend to refer to me as 'that fucking hippie'. They're not far wrong.

I'm quiet, shy, spiritual, and gentle. I'm a firm believer in our basic goodness, and in the power of the human mind to do great things. I'd do anything for my friends. I love dogs. I like to greet the full moon on top of a hill with a group of like-minded souls. I'm either a lovely person or a ridiculous New Age cliche - you decide.

(I also have a couple of good degrees and a successful career in advertising behind me, but that kind of ruins the effect.)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working as a caregiver and training with St John - eventual game plan is to become a paramedic. I hope one day to spend my time saving people's lives.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analysing texts and making cheesecake.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My Scottish accent and my terrier-like nerviness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Just read the first volume of A Song of Ice and Fire and am entirely hooked. Also Alice in Wonderland/Through the Looking Glass, the Gormenghast trilogy, A Clockwork Orange, The Picture of Dorian Gray, and too many others to mention (I'm a literature graduate).

Movies: Harold and Maude, Gregory's Girl, Boy, Dr Strangelove, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Cabaret, Pulp Fiction, The Big Lebowski (etc etc etc)

Shows: Dark comedy like Jam, Human Remains, The League of Gentlemen etc - Also shameless trash like Bridezillas.

Music: Folk mostly; big fan of Simon and Garfunkel and Joan Baez. Of Monsters and Men are rocking my world right now. I also have to mention the Bonzo Dog Doo-Dah Band - I worship the ground that the mad genius Vivian Stanshall walked on.

Food: I was vegan for a few years and vegetarian for a lot of years. I'm now an omnivore but still prefer mostly vegetarian food. I especially love Thai food. My vices (and I have a lot, which is why I'm a fatty) are mostly at the savoury rather than the sweet end of the scale. A hunk of good bread with fresh butter and I'm anybody's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dogs, books, my yoga mat, my friends, martinis, hot baths
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future - I've never been very good at living for the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now, probably in reading a book. Back in Edinburgh, I'd have been out on the town for cocktails and dancing, and when I meet some people here that's hopefully what I'll be doing again.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've admitted I talk to the moon. If you want me to go more embarrassing than that, you'll have to message me.
You should message me if
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You don't think I sound like an insufferable flake.