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HadBetterDays

21 Loganlea, Australia Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Unemployed
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Before reading my profile I would advise you read this short little comic by clicking that link below. It is the most accurate description of my outlook on life and if you find yourself opposed to the ideals expressed within it then I might not be good for you. :/
http://i.imgur.com/jlTN6nd.jpg

I'm not looking for any one night stands and please don't take it as a sign of disinterest on my part if I don't message you after I view your profile. I am just far too nervous and I guess and it would feel nice to have someone come to me for that very reason.

~Firstly some random facts~

My favourite colour is pink, I like rainy weather, my favourite youtube channel is Two Best Friends Play, I adore poetry, I really like turn-based rpgs and games with a good narrative and story. Video games have just as much potential maybe even more so than the film industry to tell a deep story and educate through player agency and decision making (more on this subject further down), I suffer from depression and am not on medication, I like the idea of doing cosplay and attending pop culture conventions, I am currently reading through all the MLP comics, My favourite author is Stephan King, I would perfer to get together and combine our wits to play through a compelling game rather than go out to a club, I believe there is no such thing as a stupid question, I have written two full books but I lost all evidence of them in the Queensland floods along with all my drawings, I have played videogames as a hobby since I was 4 years old, my favourite style of music is classical and instrumental music, Fryderyk Chopin is my musical inspiration, despite being pretty unfit I was the best at surfing in my PE class, my favourite sport is Tennis even though I can't play it, when it comes to art I like to draw my characters in an anthromorphic style so they resemble animals, I have never been to a concert, when I'm alone I like to talk to animals. I have never drank alcohol, smoked a cigarette or taken illegal drugs and I do not desire to ever. I also really like polo shirts.

I guess if I have to say so I think if I chose to study I would persue a career in graphic design.

If you suffer from actual depression yourself or are able to understand how it works then I would appreciate it if you took into account that it does have an outstandingly huge effect on how I feel and see the world. Depression isn't just feeling sad for a day or something that can be solved by "cheering up".

I'm very introverted and also a realist, (the glass isn't half full or half empty, it's just a glass of water) I'm quiet, passionate about the environment and have a deep love for videogames as a form of expression and education. I am trying to overcome my depression as it has been making it hard to feel good about anything lately. I can't cook but would learn how to if someone taught me. I hold the law in high regard and because of that I don't get along with my family very well. I have an odd way of seeing things that might creep some people out, some people may look at say a cat and think "What a cute little cat" but I would think "What a cute arrangement of atoms and cells". Yeah I know it's a bit odd but what can you do.

I wish for global peace and acceptance but sadly I don't think that will happen until our species is on the brink of extinction. I do not judge anybody on their status of wealth or income or what job you do. All life is important and worth more than society wants you to think. Weither you are a graduating law student or you play video games for a living or have no desire to get a job at all I will treat you with the same amount of respect as anyone else.

If you wanna go out one night and sit up on a big hill and gaze at the stars and maybe do some drawings with a nice lemonade to drink then you can count on me : ) I may not be that great but I'll be forever faithful and stay by your side without falter.

Oh also I'm completely blind in my right eye and only have 20% vision in the other aswell as a few other vision problems. So that is why one of my eyes looks funny. Had this defect since I was born.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing volunteer work for a charity organisation called Lifeline and attending Discovery which is a little place I can go and participate in activities with other people in the hopes of maybe making some friends. I'm slowly piecing myself back together.

I have had paid work in the past though. I have done:
Graphic/Web Design for Valhalla Studios
Pest Control for Gavin's Pest Inspections
Screen Printing for FADS Design
Computer Repair for Suncoast PC Services

So my resume isn't exactly empty...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing videogames, writing books,, drawing, keeping promises. I don't really know :/

I lost my books in the Queensland floods so I don't have them anymore as proof but I used to love writing books. I would jot down ideas during the day and as soon as I got home I would just get lost in the worlds I created for hours. Same thing happens with video games if they have a good narrative and I can immerse myself in the story.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea.

My elders are generally quick to say I am kind and well mannered.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nothing gets my blood pumping more than a good old fashioned turn-based rpg like the old final fantasy games. You get time to consider your next moves in battle and plan out your strategy without the fear of being overwhelmed like you would in action games. You get to stop for a moment to appreciate the musical score while you take notes on how to deal with the enemy in front of you. And in general I like a game that isn't afraid to take a risk and avoid the AAA scene. Anything that can tell a story that I can get lost in. I get emotional sometimes and I sort of cried at the end of Eternal Sonata. I play games almost purely for story and will rate a game on it's narrative integrity, gameplay and weither or not it is contextualised to suit said narrative and the sound design. For example if a game just shows you a Game Over screen when you fail I won't be phased but if the developers put in the effort to paint a depiction of what quitting the game means to the character IN the game I will give it extra points. If your game is about an alcoholic trying to quit the booze then show him losing to his addiction if you quit the game or something. Little artistic details like that go a long way with me. My favourite videogames in no particular order would be Lost Odyssey, Ni No Kuni, Final Fantasy 10, South Park: The Stick Of Truth, Legend Of Grimrock, Alan Wake, Fire Emblem: Awakening, Silent Hill 2, The Last Of Us, Disgaea series, Valkyria Chronicles, The Banner Saga, Eternal Sonata, Don't Starve, Tears To Tiara II, Halfway, Deadly Premonition, Melody's Escape, OSU, Atelier Ayesha, Atelier Escha & Logy, Legend Of Zelda: Ocarina Of Time, Minecraft, My Little Investigations, Demons Souls, Dark Souls, The Legend Of Heroes: Trials In The Sky, Max Payne 1-3, Tales Of Symphonia, LA Noire, Phoenix Wright, Blade Kitten, Blazblue, Infinite Undiscovery, Dust: An Elysian Tale, Persona 3, Persona 4, Dead Rising 1, Final Fantasy XIII, Star Ocean 4, Resident Evil 2 and 4, Bravely Default, Tales Of Vesperia, Deus Ex: Human Revolution, The Saboteur, Legend Of Zelda: Wind Waker, The Walking Dead by Telltale Games (not Survival Instinct), Viva Pinata 2, Golden Sun, Mario and Luigi: Superstar Saga, Spec Ops: The Line and Catherine. I can takes ages to beat rpgs cause I get so immersed in them actually I think it took me 82 hours to beat Ni No Kuni and I have sunk 70+ into Pokemon X.

If you have a problem with a guy my age enjoying cartoons and are of the belief cartoons can only be for children well then here comes the deal breaker :) My favourite cartoons are Hamtaro, The Simpsons, Adventure Time and my most favorite is My Little Pony (4th gen).

This might dock me a few points but although I like writing books I don't actually read many and the only book I can think of that I thought was fantastic was Joseph Conrad's novel, Heart Of Darkness. As a lover of post apocalyptic works of fiction I also thought the Zombie Survival Guide was kinda neat.

My favourite music would be anything between the 60s and 90s along with anything classical and instrumental like the compositions of Fryderyk Chopin and Antonio Viveldi. Oh and the soundtracks for Ni No Kuni, Lost Odyssey and Final Fantasy XIII are amazing.

I don't watch a lot of anime but I am very interested in it as a form of entertainment. I will be starting off my journey into the world of anime soon with The Black Butler, Spice And Wolf, Tales Of Vesperia: First Strike, Wolf Children and Persona 4: The Animation. My list of animes I like and mostly heard of is small but if you like anime too I'm sure you could lend me a hand in filling it up.

I am mad about popcorn, pizza and lasagna.

As for movies-anything from Studio Ghibli and Disney :D
I'm also into horror movies (not the over the top gory kind that seem to forget what horror is all about). I'm not too interested in action movies but some are alright.

The Myst, The Amityville Horror (remake), Apocalypse Now, Finding Forrester, Man On Fire, Contagion, Howls Moving Castle, My Neighbour Totoro, Spirited Away, Grave Of The Fireflies, The Shawshank Redemption, The Persuit Of Happiness, Finding Forrester, 16 Blocks, Treasure Planet, Beauty And The Beast, A Few Good Men, 28 Days later, Pans Labyrinth and The Boy In The Striped Pyjamas, Red State, Princess Mononoke and Heavy Rain (see what I did there ?) are a few movies I like. I'll add more when I remember them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Uhh I guess my games, youtube, the mlp fanbase, time to myself, cereal and soundtracks from video games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the real meaning of life is and why is our race so oblivious to it's own inevitable destruction.

I also like to think about space. The endless sea of stars that surround us on our hurtling comet. Just what is out there ? Are we really alone ? Are we really safe here on earth ?

Am I a good person ?
What does it take to be a good person ?

I spend a lot of nights awake having an existential crisis. Although I wouldn't call it a crisis as I am perfectly okay with the reality of what my life really is. I find it rather fascinating too. There is always more out there to learn, always a bigger picture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing video games and collecting my thoughts. I strictly do not drink alcohol or have any interest in going out to pubs or clubs. I don't get out much and only leave the house if there is something important to do like get groceries or collect the mail. I'm sort of comfortable being outside but when it comes to going to places like a movie or a fancy restaurant I lack the will to go and would only do so if someone insisted and came with me. I'm not scared or anything but having the extra company might help my motivation.

Yep. Not much to say really..... sorry :/
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I haven't been invited to hang out with a friend for about 3 and a half years

Also I have only worn long pants ever since I was 16 as I am very insecure about my legs. I know.... I'm weird :/

I'm also a fur. I find anthromorphic characters attractive and find the connection with various animals to be quite beautiful. I used to draw anthro characters in comic strips with my friends back in primary school.

I am also not religious as I believe that we are an outcome of luck and are simply born, grow and then just like everything else we die and cease to exist. I don't really believe in heaven or hell and there is no answer. I'm not sure I should say much else. I'm not going to shun you because you believe in something different at all. Infact I welcome it : )
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You aren't homophobic, sexist, racist or an extreme feminist, they're pretty annoying.

You understand not every guy is gonna want to spend his weekends getting drunk and lifting weights.

Oh and if you like the idea of playing rpgs together and forming strategies and just doing small fun little things together I guess.