I work. I have my own place, own car, and not looking for someone to take care of me.
I am funny (so I am told), I am a realist, I have my own beliefs as far as the universe goes (and that includes religion), and I am pretty much happy to deal with as little drama as possible. I don't have regrets.
Separated for 4 years.... not looking at getting married again so that is why the paperwork is not done. We get along fine. If the right person were to come along however the paperwork would not be an issue. So there! (Girls ask.... LOL)