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LookingForMyMat

48 / M / Straight / Single

Bayport, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:03pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
wow, where do you start with this one? how do you not sound to generic, or cheesy? Humm, well I guess the best way is to just talk to me, ask me questions and find out who I really am. I have nothing to hide, i am who i am.
Mostly i want to find that person that when you kiss them you feel something special in your heart.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live it to the best of my ability. To be a good role model to my kids, and to maybe make a difference in someones life.
I’m really good at
lot's of things! being a dad, a friend, someone that others can depend on.
Fixing things, and being there for people. Maybe its a fault but i feel that we all are here to help out our fellow human beings. Well, except lawyers, but really all other human beings.
The first things people usually notice about me
My rugged good looks and the fact that i am so graceful on my feet.
Or maybe its my eyes (isn't that what 85% of people say)?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i love to read biographies, true crime novels and stephen kings style books. As for movies, i love sci-fi, action, drama, and comedies.
music is something i cannot live without. i listen to anything but country, but tend to listen to cassic rock, and r&b.
food, well, bring it on, i love and eat anything!
The six things I could never do without
music, my guitar, a good book, my kids, my family, and of course clean underwear.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why people post pictures of themselves that they take in a mirror showing their PHONE?

Why people answer the silly questions on here as if they mean something in the whole process of finding someone.

How people can be so definitive in their answers about a potential mate without meeting that person and getting to know them. We need to be open minded and willing to know the inner person.

Why i always feel like I'm on a job interview whenever i speak to someone on here.

More insights to come.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical Friday night for me, as I'm sure there isn't for anyone else out there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's private, why would i admit it on here! But there was this one time when I .............
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you love good conversation, being spontaneous, and are willing to meet that person that time flies with.