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31 Indianapolis, IN Non-binary


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–39
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:10pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Open relationship
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Latin (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hard working blue collar, bearded, neurodivergent, metal/glass-working, coop and fence building, wrench turning, slow driving, bespectacled, non-binary idealist and ardent lover of people.

ENFJ, if that's your cup of tea.
Self identified as a 2.5 on the Kinsey.

I am in a healthy, fulfilling, communicative, and dedicated relationship with a loving partner.

I subscribe to the radical notion that I was born with the same full human capacity that women are born with, and prefer the company of like-minded folk.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I build well engineered, quality chicken coops on the side. And I'm building myself a tinyhome. Work in progress, but really, we all are.

Constant state of self improvement and awareness.

I'm an advocate for urban agriculture and local sustainability. I'm just as at home debating zoning ordinance as I am tilling, tending, weeding, harvesting, and homesteading.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I fix things, if it can be repaired, I'll find a way.

I am a human puppy, according to some. I make conversation with anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I drive like your Gramps. No really, I take it slow.

Also, I am not little, I am frequently referred to as an Ox, Yeti, Bear, or Hulk.

My guffaws rival the barbaric yalps of Whitman, and can be heard for several blocks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Major caveat: I can't read well, at least not at the adult level, so I pretty much only have cookbooks, home repair guides, periodicals, and Calvin and Hobbes. If you're a bibliophile, I dig that. Neruda and Whitman have my regular attention, as well, Frost and Thoreau. This is an area of constant improvement.

Don't own a TV, but dig Eureka, Firefly, BSG, Star Trek (TNG, Voyager), Doctor Who (Eccleston ftw).

Joy Kills Sorrow, Electric Wizard, Vivaldi's Oboe Concerti, Hawksly Workman, Opeth, Deadmau5, Binary Star, and Neal Hellman. I grew up on Simon and Garfunkle, Iron Butterfly, and BS&T. I'm glued to NPR at work and while driving, I love Fresh Air, Performance Today, Harmonia, and The Story (with Dick Gordon).

Predominantly herbivorous omnivore. I'm not picky, but if you dislike olives and/or beets (exceptions made for goldens), we're best friends. Curry, root veggies, oatmeal banana bread are all favorites.

Whiskey and/or Rye. IPA's.

This category is missing:
Klimt, Matisse, Kahlo, Mucha, Ostrozovich, not in that order.

Also, pie.

I really miss cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The commons
Creative/design outlets
The five senses

(7. Palindromes???)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Utopian Socialism.

Subsistence Agriculture.

Interstate Pedalways/Trails, Daniel Boone and Johnny Appleseed managed just fine without cars.

Informed Consent and the Enthusiastic Yes. Taken out of context they sound like a striking title for a musical. Taken in context, they're a part of my vocabulary and I practice them quite sternly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tinkering, reading, boozing, wrenching, or riding...

Long autumn bike rides are an instant positive response. Bonus points for stargazing.

My go-to haunt is the Dorman, but a change of scenery would be nice.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am worn on dating. I'd rather just meet people who feel like home, comfortable and compassionate. Some days, that's all I want..

I'd also rather chuck all my possessions into a crate, move to some open acreage, and begin planting food crops than continue to work for corporations.

I live tiny, very tiny. I work a great deal, and enjoy it. I love fervently, compassionately. And I am quite serious about my future and our planet.
You should message me if
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You like the idea of a close, intimate friendship that is mutually beneficial.

You should also message me if you'd like to ride around the city, I'm always down for a bike date!!

I also have no issue with driving 12 hours for a weekend getaway, just saying.

If you're nice to me, I will build you things...