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27 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–36
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Jun 10, 2014
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from high school
- Rather not say
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Okay), Other
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE AT THIS TIME. IF YOU MESSAGE ME LOOKING FOR SOMETHING I WILL BE BLUNT (WHICH YOU MAY FEEL IS ME BEING RUDE).
I like to try to look at life and the things that happen to me from the most optimistic perspective I can. I tend to filter negative people from my life so that I am not constantly absorbing bad energy around me. I am a free spirit seeking a man who is another self-professed free spirit and sexually open-minded person.
I am what the Native Americans refer to as "Two Spirit," which is what they affectionately call people who are transgender. I am new to being trans-identified to those in my life, but I have found that living honestly as Lorali - my true form - is easier than living a lie as the shell of myself, even if I do sometimes get shit from closed-minded jerks who just like to pick on someone who is the bullseye of an easy target like me.
It is hard for others to accept someone who is trans, even harder for them to understand that this was not a choice for us, and it's easy to come down on us, because that's what most people do. However, it can be a lesson in enlightenment to love us for who we truly are on the inside.
I am easy to be around because I love sex, smoking a bong, and I love to laugh; the only thing is that sex has to be with the right guy who has a pure spirit and a good outlook on life that doesn't exclude anybody. But I can laugh and smoke with just about anyone.
Eventually I am looking for something long-term, but for now, I just want to take things slow, casually, and with a good sense of humor, and let it flow naturally from there and morph into whatever our good Chi will make from it.
I am a high maintainece girl with a very unique style and manner. I have a very high sex drive that no one can satisfy. I can be a friend when respect is given and a bitch when I need to be. I tell it like it is and don't care if feelings have been hurt. I am lover but can fuck someone up in a unique style that leaves them with a wound that does damage. I love to cuddle and I love the feeling of a open poly relationship. I am one kinky girl and will talk about blow jobs and sex. I am loyal and want someone who has loyalty to me, my friends and family. When it comes to the BDSM scene I can be soft as a feather or as rough as a wreaking ball. For me to be my true self when it comes to who I am kink wise it takes a lot of trust.
Peace & Love, Not Some Angry God Above,
Let's All Get Along & Smoke A Bong, But If Sex You Expect, You Must Meet My Qualification List,
Being a sadomasicastic bitch with a decent tolerance for pain.
2. Nice clothes
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