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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Open relationship
6' 8" (2.03m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I work for myself, and although it appears I have tons of free time, I'm actually working way more than I would in the 9-5 world. I enjoy going to the Open Eye Cafe. I enjoy building cars, and Yurts. I also like watching a movie and cuddling up on the couch. I'm currently in a solid, stable open relationship with my wonderful wife DragonLilly33. I try to stay happy, Free-Spirited, and sex positive. I also love rebuilding and restoring things. I find it sad today so few people know how to fix things these days.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been working on building a CNC Mill, and getting it dialed in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem Solving, it's one of my special gifts in life. Also making extremely alcoholic drinks that taste like nothing. I've been into yurts for many years and and enjoy making them too. I've lost count of how many I've made. And doing things with my hands. I'm also really good at making people open up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, I'm tall at 6'8". Then maybe my long reddish blonde hair. Well trimmed beard, and soft eyes. Then maybe broad shoulders. Then holy crap a kilt, then holy crap look at those legs. 8-). Lots of first things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Illusions, Your Money or your life, most all of Heinlein's, The Ethical Slut. I wish I had more time to just sit and read, but when I do calm down, I'm usually thinking about 100 things at once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
That's Tough, real tough:
1) DragonLilly33 (okay, that one is real easy)
2) Laughter (that too)
3) Sex... of course.
4) My ability to solve problems
5) Tools. I love building and fixing things.
6) All the obvious essentials (air, water, food...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Solving different problems, and figuring out how things work in my mind. Sex, too 8-).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home, or working, or at Open Eye Cafe. Lately I've been taking time out to try to get out and play more. I often work too much, and sometimes need help getting distracted. If you enjoy going to Open Eye, send me a message. I'll meet up over a mocha 8-).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can almost never talk to people to start. Until I start getting I know someone I'm terribly shy. Most people don't believe me. Once I start talking tho, I'm good. Strange quirk, I know. I'm often completely oblivious to people who are interested in me. For those that do contact me 1st, I'm usually up for meeting. I'm much easier to talk to in person. And that I
You should message me if
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If You have a match over 75%. You're looking for someone to have some clean, safe, fun with. Enjoy upfront and open sexuality. I'm in an open relationship, read "The Ethical Slut" if you can. Also check out DragonLilly33 profile.

I prefer people to message me first, I feel it shows initiative 8-).

And most of all, don't waste my time and I won't waste yours. People play games all the time, and they are just hurting themselves. I do my best to be real and honest. I expect the same.