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34 Grand Rapids, MI Man


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  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
Dec 19
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Where to start... well, I'm an IT Professional in the Financial
Services Industry. As the job has grown, so have I and I love the
job. I earned my BA (yes, Arts) in Computer Science from Grand
Valley State University in 2003.

I'm a pretty mellow guy, most of my friends would probably
describe me as being sensitive, honest, and loving. I have a
strong sense of principle which sometimes gets me in trouble... I
tend to do the "right" thing even when there may be a more
"practical" alternative.

I tend to be rather introverted, and I have a lot of "nerdy"
interests and hobbies. I'm sociable enough but sometimes I need
a nudge - being easy going I always find some way to enjoy
myself wherever I am.

I don't really watch any TV - the TV that I do watch is streamed or
downloaded and consumed slowly. I love playing video games
and I read quite a bit, though a lot of that has been audiobook of

That being said, I'm a bit of a foodie and love trying new edibles,
most of my "travel" ideas are cuisine motivated. Admittedly I'm a
bit travel shy since my trip to Russia - my "Street Smarts" are not
so smart. :( I love going to the Symphony, I go at least a few
times a year - our Grand Rapids Symphony Orchestra always has
a good program. (P.S. I hate parking downtown, if you're a good
city driver please mention it.)

I have 7 siblings, of which I am the oldest. Before you raise an
eyebrow you should know that only 1 is biologically related to me.
This may be a good conversation piece so do ask me about if you

I have a goofy streak... I always say its the fruits and nuts in the
world that make it a delicious place to live.
I am "awake"... this is a concept I've come up with myself, so its
hard to explain. If you've ever gone people watching, and run into
another people watcher, you probably have a good idea what I
mean here. This may be a good conversation piece - ask me about
if you like.

So, now that I've sold you on me... (right?... right.)
Some qualities I'm looking for in a partner include:
* Enjoys snuggling/cuddling, is affectionate/loving
* Has a relaxed personality, someone who can match me in
compassion, kindness, and honesty. Is genuine.
* Interested in maybe having children someday, looking for
someone who knows the difference between being a "daddy" and
a "father."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to move into the next phase... I'm done with school, I've
established my career and have been in my industry over a
decade, I have hobbies and friends...

But alas, I am still without a partner to share my life with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking through other peoples eyes... taking their point of view.
Being WAY more verbose then I need to be in every situation.

I'm sure you'll notice as you view my profile. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My simple taste in wardrobe/style (plain) probably... or my pattern
of speech when I'm trying to be thoughtful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
* Wizard's First Rule (Sword of Truth series)
* On a Pale Horse (Incarnations of Immortality series)
* Good Omens

* Gulliver's Travels (/w Ted Danson)
* Shawshank Redemption
* Lord of the Rings (Trilogy/Hobbit)

* Grand Rapids Symphony Orchestra
* Dear Friends / More Friends

Music (Genres)
* Electronic Music
* Chiptunes
* Retrobeat
* Chillout

* Bacon (makes everything better!)
* Cucumbers
* Spicy food!

I used to listen to the "Podictionary" Podcast religiously...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* Internet
* Video Games
* Good Fiction
* Mello Yello (Zero)
* Peanut Butter
* Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A whole lot of everything... my wheels never really stop turning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can suppress my ticklishness.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're kinda nerdy and/or like nerdy guys. You're looking for
someone who holds *integrity* and *honesty* as high ideals.

You're laid back, sorta liberal, comfortable in your skin, and take
life seriously... just not too seriously.

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