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YoureInMySpot

40 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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A good friend told me that I would be the result if Pam Poovey and Sheldon Cooper had a child together. Points to those who immediately get it. :)

I’m sort of a particular guy. I’m probably no more complicated or hard to understand than your average guy, but perhaps a bit on the picky side. At this stage in my life I’ve accepted that there are things I need from a relationship and I’m no longer willing to sacrifice everything to be someone I’m not for someone else. That’s not such a ridiculous idea, right?

I’m on the independent/introverted side of things, I require time to myself. The upshot of this is that I’m also completely relaxed about it if you need time to yourself or to hang out with other people. Jealousy isn’t really my thing, I’m not the kind of guy who’s going to look askance if you hang out with guy friends and such. Evolved male and all that.

I’m a huge geek. My geekiness (knows no bounds) covers a lot of things but some keywords here are high fantasy, sci fi, computers, gaming, and cockatiels. Yes, cockatiels. You know how some people are all kinds of crazy about dogs and cats? Well that’s me, but with cockatiels. If you’re lucky, I’ll introduce you to the flock here at the house.

I’m a pretty open minded sort of guy, if you think we might get along, let me know. I can be affectionate, chivalrous, and charming if I feel comfortable. It can take a little time to get to know me and for me to let all the walls down but I’m really just a nice guy who wants to share himself with someone special.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working full time to support myself.

Also reading and gaming.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing computers, computer games, table top RPG and board games, anything tech related really.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:

The Belgariad, The Malloreon, The Elenium, The Tamuli, Belgarath The Sorcerer, Polgara the Sorceress and The Redemption of Althalus by David and Leigh Eddings. The Dragonlance Chronicles and Legends by Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman. The Saga of Recluse, The Spellsong Cycle and The Corean Chronicles by L. E. Modesitt, Jr. The Heralds of Valdemar, The Last Herald-Mage, The Mage Winds, The Mage Storms, The Mage Wars, Darian's Tale, Vows and Honor, The Collegium Chronicles, The Dragon Jousters, and The Elemental Masters by Mercedes Lackey. The Anita Blake Vampire Hunter Novels and The Princess Meredith NicEssus Novels by Laurell K. Hamilton. The Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan. The Wars of Light and Shadow by Janny Wurts. Shannara, The Heritage of Shannara, The Voyage of the Jerle Shannara, High Druid of Shannara and Genesis of Shannara by Terry Brooks. The Rift War Saga, The Rift War Legacy, The Serpentwar Saga, The Conclave of Shadows and The Darkwar Saga by Raymond E. Feist. The Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind. The Hollows series by Kim Harrison. The Novels of the Legend of Drizzt by R. A. Salvatore. The Vampire Chronicles by Anne Rice. The Earth's Children series by Jean M. Auel.

Music:

Apoptygma Berzerk, Beborn Beton, Bolt Thrower, Covenant, Colony 5, Cradle of Filth, The Cruxshadows, Danzig, Def Leppard, Depeche Mode, Die Form, Dream Theater, Duran Duran, E Nomine, Ego Likeness, Enigma, Faith & The Muse, Fleetwood Mac, Front 242, Genesis, Information Society, Iris, Juno Reactor, Madonna, Megadeth, Midnight Oil, Ministry, Motley Crue, Nine Inch Nails, No Doubt, Ozzy Osbourne, Pantera, Paul Simon, Pet Shop Boys, Peter Murphy, Pink Floyd, Praga Khan, Prong, Queensryche, Rob Zombie, Rush, Sepultura, Sisters of Mercy, Switchblade Symphony, Type O Negative, VNV Nation, Within Temptation, Wolfsheim, Wumpscut, Unshine, Shiny Toy Guns, Assemblage 23, Imperative Reaction.

Movies:

AVATAR, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Matrix Trilogy, Fight Club, Aliens, Screamers, The Saint, Ladyhawke, Hero, The Fifth Element, Wing Commander, The Crow, Gone in 60 Seconds, The Abyss, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Dark City, XXX, Serenity, Underworld, Gladiator, Blade, Before Sunrise, Bicentennial Man.

Television:

Star Trek, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Star Trek: Deepspace Nine, Star Trek: Voyager, Star Trek: Enterprise, Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, Stargate Universe, Babylon 5, Farscape, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica(OLD), Forever Knight, True Blood, South Park, Bill Maher, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Marvel Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Cosmos, Archer

Food:

Sushi and Indian are high on the list, open to trying anything and everything at least once.

Video Games:

MASS EFFECT, STAR CITIZEN, Elder Scrolls, Diablo, Half-Life, Quake, Bioshock, Neverwinter Nights, Farcry, Fallout, Mechwarrior, Deus Ex, S.T.A.L.K.E.R., Warcraft, Unreal, Doom, Titan Quest, Total War, The Witcher.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My books, computer, bed, my own personal space, RPG games and my grumpy bird.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
General geekery, sex, cockatiels, cockatiels again and more geekery.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights are work nights for me (I usually work swing). However, if you're a night owl, hanging out after work is a possibility.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Revealed quite a bit in the questions. If you'd like to know more you'll have to be specific. ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You appreciate an intelligent, respectful guy.
-You'd like to do some gaming.
-You have compatible taste in music and might be down to catch a show sometime.
-You want to discuss high fantasy books.
-You're a little socially awkward yourself, we can be socially awkward together!
-You want to.