If you look at the sky tonight and notice that the most beautiful and precious star is missing... I swear I have no clue how I fell, but I am okay! lol The essence of life is love! My idea of a romantic time would be any type of bonding activity: eating/cooking dinner together, teaching each other something, kayaking, etc... I am comfortable in my own skin, very secure, diverse, an introvert and extravert, affable/ outgoing, do not limit myself, look at challenges as a chance for growth, a jack of all trades, and believe the guy should pursue the girl. I will always strive to be a better person and do more than the second before because life is an ongoing process of learning and improving/evolving from one moment to the next in a relationship and other aspects of life. Who I'm with also needs to share these same perspectives and takes as much care of themself as I do of myself. I am in healthcare because I care about helping people with their physical, mental, and emotional health. I am thankful for everything!***

***I need to see a picture of you since you saw a picture of me.***

for fun:
Anything exciting or out of the ordinary with necessary precautions to prevent injury/harm! I am pursuing academic goals, personal journeys, and searching for more. Are you up for anything? Lets explore!

favorite things:
I believe it is essential to do everything you possibly can that is healthy for the mind, body, and soul. I love to read, learn, and dance! I can enjoy a good conversation until dawn!

favorite hot spots:
Traveling gives you wisdom! I have always said I want to go everywhere at least 2 times. I love adventure! I have been to Australia, England, France, Italy, Jamaica, Aruba, Mexico, Canada, and the next place I'd love to go is Greece!

Hair: Blonde
Eyes: Blue
Sports and exercise: Aerobics
Auto racing / Motorcross
Basketball
Billiards / Pool
Bowling
Dancing
Football
Golf
Hockey
Martial arts
Running
Skating
Skiing
Tennis/ Racquet sports
VolleyBall
Weights
Hiking
Yoga
Zumba

Exercise habits: Exercise 3-4 times per week
Interests:
Business Networking
Coffee and conversation
Cooking
Dining out
Exploring new areas
Fishing/Hunting
Hobbies and crafts
Movies/Videos
Museums and art
Music and concerts
Nightclubs/Dancing
Performing arts
Playing sports
Political
Religion/Spiritual
Travel/Sightseeing
Volunteering

Languages: English and Spanish
Politics: Liberal
Pets I have: Birds
Pets I like:
Cats
Dogs
Exotic pets
Fish
Horses
Other

I am here for a trial, able, and ready

My career goal: to make just the slightest difference in someone's day to make their world just a little better. To do that everyday...would be priceless! I intend to do this through being a Psychiatrist/Psychologist. Currently: Dental/ Medical/ Surgical Assistant

my religion:
I am passionate about contributing to the world, attend church, was a girlscout, like volunteering for causes as much as possible, work the Election Day polls, and value good insight! I'm open minded, progressive, & flexible in my thinking!

my education:
We are Penn State! B.A. Psychology 2011. A.S Liberal Arts and Science

You decide

Substance
Why don't you tell me?

reading interests: The Lost Symbol, The Celestine Prophecy, and the Twlight series. I find myself pondering the different perceptions others have so, I can read a good book until I fall asleep. I have the want to understand anything and everything.

movies:
in particular- I loved Twlight and Avatar... this is an under statement.
The Secret- http://www.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3Dm0HNJqPRO_0&h=041328b2cc9ab1d6447ef22bac65bcab

favorite music:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZpxsQUQD1g

favorite Food:
I like many different types of cultural foods. I use healthy substitues. Do you?

traveling
resources
intellectual stimulation
exercising
love- the essence of life
hand sanatizer

~This is my personality profile for you to think about~
Here's one important truth about you: you have a tender heart. Yes, you know that others need to learn to take care of themselves. Yes, you know they need to accept the consequences of their foolish or bad behavior. And sometimes, even when your instinct is to help them, you will let them fend for themselves and let them suffer the consequences of their choices or circumstances.

But most of the time you are there to help when they need you. If they are in trouble, you offer compassion and go out of your way to be helpful. If they need someone who will listen, you are trustworthy and sympathetic. And you are direct with them; when they need advice or counsel, you offer it in a straightforward, direct manner, without beating around the bush.

You're also smart enough to know that you cannot take good care of others if you fail to take good care of yourself, so you listen to your own wants and needs. If you've run out of sympathetic energy, you spend time restoring yourself. If you've ignored your own pain or frustration, you find a friend who will listen well, or go into your own private healing place and give yourself permission to focus on you. You do know how to take care of yourself, but your genuine interest is in taking care of others.

A General Description of How You Approach New Information and Experiences:

You think like an artist. Or better, you SEE like an artist. While most people look at life's straight lines, its height and depth and width, you're bending the lines with your imagination and turning black and white into shades of blue and yellow. And in conversations at work or with your friends you want to ask, "Do you see what I see?" A few might, most don't, but you've piqued everyone's curiosity with your own original and inventive ways of thinking.

You can, if you must, think in conventional ways. But left on your own, you'll usually opt for the eccentric or avant-garde; in fact you're usually bored with what everyone else is comfortable with. You learn from reading, talking, watching people and other fauna and flora, and simply sitting in the soft chair ofInterests:your mind and wondering how people would learn how to count if they could only use uneven numbers. You are out in front of conventional ideas, bravely originally defining true and false, right and wrong, the good, the bad and the ugly.

Even those whom you make uncomfortable know, as just about everyone does, that you're not a flake. You think well, and even your wildest fancies have their roots in the deep soil of sound ideas and tested beliefs. So even if some people don't want to drive at high speed with you, they will respect you for your courage as an innovative and unconventional thinker. You lend color and imagination to what would otherwise be the straight black and white lines of their work world and social environments.

General Description of Your Reactivity:

In some ways, you've got the best of emotional worlds. When emotions rise up from inside you or are brought forth from a conversation by a friend, you know how to engage them. You deal with sadness, fear, joy, anger - whatever comes up - in ways that are perceptive and flexible. You can adapt to whatever level of emotion is appropriate to the moment. At other times, you are able to cope with your emotions in a more reserved manner. Because you are aware of what does and does not make emotional sense in a particular situation, you will decide when it is an appropriate time to express your emotions and when it would be best to keep them to yourself. All of this gives you a rich emotional life. You are free to express your passions about certain subjects with appropriate people. But you are also emotionally adaptable; if the conversation needs to be more cerebral, you'll keep it "in your head" and talk calmly through whatever issue is on the table. This emotional awareness serves you well. You seldom get in over your head, either by opening up to the wrong person or by triggering in someone else's emotions they may not be able to deal with.
Many people will be grateful to find a friend like you who can stay in control when emotions verge on chaos, but who can also go into the tangle of emotions when it is safe and appropriate to do so. Because of your ability to engage them at whatever level they are comfortable, to adapt to whatever changes in emotion emerge in the conversation, and to cope so well with all of it - well, they'll be very glad they found a person like you.

A General Description of How You Interact with Others:

You add liveliness to any situation. You talk and listen, participate in whatever the activity is "a sport or a party or a walk in the woods" and come away from such experiences pumped up by the time spent together. You especially like to talk with your friends. You bring energy and genuine interest to almost any conversation. When they speak, you listen; and then you are eager to have your say as well. You know how to connect in a conversation, using your energy, your vocabulary, and your genuine interest in being with the other person. You are at your best and are happiest in these experiences of real communication.

One more thing about you. When you are in these experiences of real communication with others, you really know how to let yourself go. When you talk, when you play, when you participate in some activity, you are unrestrained. You give all that you've got to these moments, and because you like the experience so much, your warmth comes through. It is clear to whomever you're with that you're glad to be in just this situation. In these warm, wide-open moments, you are you at your best.
Your warmth and liveliness will attract company to you, and your ability to communicate with such unrestrained energy will draw them in and keep them interested. They will appreciate your willingness to take the initiative in planning an event or leading a conversation, and because you come alive in a group you will make any social situation more fun and more interesting for everyone involved.

If you sometimes go over the top: talk too much, insist too intently on your own opinions, get someone involved in an adventure that may be out of their usual realm of behaviors, people who know you well will probably cut you some slack because they understand that when you get wound up you sometimes don't stop. It's just lively, energetic, outgoing you who makes life so much more interesting for your friends.

Should there be a typical Friday night?

I need what I give so you will turn me on if you possess or will reciprocate: the want to be part of something bigger or much greater than yourself as I do (a relationship that will naturally develop into being long term), morals and values*, appreciation of your family, sincerity for trust to exist, chivalry, emotional security/maturity/availability to connect emotionally, equality/ stands aside me (not in front of or behind), adaptability to life circumstances, supportiveness/ belief in me, affability, stimulation/ intelligence, effective communication, expressive resolution, character, outgoingness, demonstration of affection/ cuddles, a habit of remembering things, curiosity about things, excitement, adventure, positive challenge/ motivation, respect towards women, and belief that friendship/ companionship is an element of a relationship (usage of the word "our" in comparison to "mine"). If you are a man of action I look forward to hearing from you! Bonus points if you have frequent flier miles that you want to share with me!;-)
"Time waits for no one. Loving and being loved unconditionally contributes to individual success.”

~ABOUT MY DATE~
men ages 27-34

Hair:
present**
Auburn / Red
Black
Blonde
Dark blonde
Dark brown
Light brown
Platinum

Height: 5'10" (173cms) to 6'4" (193cms)

Body type:
About average
Athletic and toned
Slender

Languages: non vulgar English, non thug, and no boorishness

Ethnicity: White / Caucasian

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / LDS
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Other
Spiritual but not religious

Education:
Bachelors degree
Graduate degree
PhD / Post Doctoral

Smoke: No Way -I am allergic to smoke

Drink: Never or Social Drinker

Relationships: Never Married

Have kids: No

Want kids: Definitely or Someday