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LostBehindWords

20 / F / straight / Single

Cleveland, Ohio

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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I am energetic, creative, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

Hey everyone! I'm Stella-Rayven, but I go by Rayven.
First thing I'll cover is writing is my passion. I'm always writing down an idea, description, or quote that I think I could use later. I write it on my hand, napkins, paper plates, anything I can find and write on. I also love music. I'm constantly listening to music- I always have my ipod- because music is literally my life. I play many instruments (guitar, piano, sax, drums, clarinet, flute and french horn), but I'm not the musician I always dreamed I would be. I still listen to all kinds of music and play around with my instruments, but it's just a hobby now. Finally, I love art. I love going to art galleries or just painting (even though I will admit I am crap at it). Every once in a while I get random inspiration to paint, draw or just color in a coloring book, but I usually get frustrated because I'm not as good as I wish I was at drawing. I still try though. I love laughing and making people laugh. Laughter makes the world go round and I just love the sound of laughter. I love music, writing, reading, sports, art, coffee shops, dancing, going to concerts, and just living life.
I'm a big kid at heart. I love cartoons, marshmallows, Disney movies, and stuffed animals (but I know when to be serious). Little things like funny prints on boxers or snorting while laughing make me happy, I'm very easily pleased. "Simple things they make my heart go."
I don't drink or smoke and I don't plan on starting. I'm maybe one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. It's a good and bad thing sometimes. I believe everyone deserves a chance. I hate arguing and I hate when people are mad at me so I do all I can to avoid it. There's a lot more to me, so just message me. You won't regret it, I swear.
Now in French
Salut! Je m'appelle Stella-Rayven. J'ai dix-neuf ans. Mon anniversaire est quatorze octobre. J'aime mange et rigole. Je n'aime pas parler en francais :/

What I’m doing with my life

I'm going to school for special education and English Literature to become a special education teacher and a free lance writer. I work with Stone Model and Talent Agency. I'm a promotional model but I'm in training to be a runway and print model. Also, I'm a high school lacrosse coach and I mentor girls ages 12-17.

I’m really good at

I feel conceited answering this. I'm above okay at making people laugh, texting, baking cakes, writing, taking care of others, making others feel better, being affectionate, puzzles (I love puzzles), and staying in the lines when coloring =)

The first things people usually notice about me

Um...My smile, I believe. I'm not really sure.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books- Twilight, Chasing RedBird, The Penny, Burned, Crank, Glass, Impulse, The Pact (The one by Jodi Picoult), Nineteen Minutes, lots.

Movies- Transformers, BeetleJuice, The Notebook, A Walk To Remember, Twilight, Hannah Montana :D, Almost Famous, Role Models, Never Been Kissed, Coyote Ugly, AUGUST RUSH<3 and The Little Rascals.

Music: I play a lot of different instruments and among them is the saxophone so of course I love Jazz. I'm also into just about anything but mostly Pop-punk and of course..country.

Food-Mmm, hehe. Oreos, French fries, Pasta of any kind, Pizza from Papa Johns, Orange chicken, Cake, Chili, and anything sweet especially. My all-time favorite type of food is Italian.

The six things I could never do without

(Besides the things everyone needs like air)
1) My cell phone
2) The Internet
3) Books/Paper/Pens
4) My iPod
5) Love and people
6) Sweet stuff

~Yeah I cheated by putting stuff together. Shhh... :D~

I spend a lot of time thinking about

-My future
-Is there a love that lasts forever.
-Are there any guys that can look past looks and sex.
-Who created oreos.
-What happened to all the years between "The Rugrats" and "All Grown Up"
-Why do cartoons suck so much now.
-Other random stuff :D

On a typical Friday night I am

-Hanging out with my friends and going to concerts or just dinner.
-Hanging out with the girls I mentor.
-Having huge sleepovers full of junk food and soda.
-Sitting in coffeeshops with friends or alone writing.
-Sitting at home reading, writing, and just relaxing.

Depends on my mood.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Umm...I'm afraid of clowns, squirrels, death and the dark.

You should message me if

You're nice and fun to talk to, you like to laugh, you're single, you find me interesting and want to know more, you think you're interesting and think I should know more, if you're a writer/musician, or if you're completely bored out of your mind.