Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's see, where to start? I am 24 and a single mom. I don't mean
single mom like I have the weekends off, I mean single mom 24/7 365
days a year. I have a little girl who just turned two and I am
beginning to believe that stubborness is genetic as she certainly
seems to believe a my way or the highway philosophy. Not that I
blame her, I like to have my own way all the time too! People who
don't know me say that I am shy. People who do know me laugh at
those who don't. I do take a while to warm up to people, more so
because I believe that friend is a term that should mean something.
Friends are the people who pick you up at 3am cause your car broke
down, they're the people who can finish all your stories cause they
were there when it happened. If that's not the case then it's not a
friendship, it's just someone to party with or talk to at work or
nod to when you see them in the grocery store. I take the
relationships in my life very seriously and for me trusting someone
completely is the end all be all in terms of intimacy. That being
said, for everything else I am a pretty laid back person. I am a
libertarian, but not a psycho one. Essentially I believe that what
people do in the privacy of their own homes is no one else's
business, as long as they're not hurting anyone else. I do smoke
and no I'm not going to change that for anyone else. When I want
to, I will, until then bugger off. I don't really have the time or
money for a lot of the things that I would like to do so for now my
hobbies are confined to reading, swimming, having drinks with a
couple of friends and watching the UFC whenever I get the chance. I
would love to travel, specifically to Europe but that's a dream for
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently working for an insurance company. But I don't do all
the souless life sucking crap that they do upstairs. I just get to
play with the mail. It's a job and it pays some of my bills so I go
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. I'm that person that people always seem to tell their
life stories and deepest secrets to. I don't know why. I think
because that line from Fight Club about people not really listening
but just waiting for their turn to speak always stuck with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall for a girl. That's usually the first thing I hear. And
usually after that I hear that I make people feel short. And then
someone asks me to get them something from a top shelf. Yeah...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As far as books go I'll read just about anything and I pretty much
always have at least one or two books going. Just finished the Game
of Thrones series and I am itching for the next book to come out.
For movies, Boondock Saints, Fight Club, Snatch and Donnie Darko in
that order. Shows I'll do anything comedy. Music pretty much makes
my world go round and one of my favorite hobbies is going to any
concert I can scrape up the money and time for. I am a rock fan,
which includes everything from the oldies to alternative to grunge
to industrial to heavy metal. I lean more towards the heavy metal
but if it has a good sound I don't care what genre it comes from.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My own space
(Most of my stuff was destroyed in a fire at one point so I find
that I can live without pretty much anything)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The life, the universe and everthing? I don't know. I spend a lot
of time at the moment thinking about what I need to do right now to
get to where I want to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Used to be that on a Friday night I was out and about, but now I
have a small person so almost every Friday night I am at home
relaxing or hanging out with my roommates. Every now and then they
let me out of the house to remind me what having a life is like!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't come up with anything for this that doesn't come off as way
too cheesy or way too much information for an online profile. So
I'm just gonna go with if you have a question message me and I'll
have an answer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a brain in your head and know how to use it. I like people
who can hold their own in a conversation or debate. Confidence is
also a big plus. I'm not into guys who are way too in touch with
their feminine sides or who believe that the world is out to get
them. Nor am I your mother. I have no interest in being the only
adult in a relationship, I'd much rather have a partner who knows
when to put their big boy panties on. A sense of humor is a must. I
love to laugh and nothing is off limits, so if
dirty/offensive/sarcastic humor is not your thing then we probably
wouldn't mesh. I'm not here for hookups and I'm not into games. I'm
not perfect and I've made mistakes in the past that I'm willing to
own up to, therefore I'm a big believer in shades of gray. If
you're into black and white morality then don't bother cause I can
gurantee that I won't live up to, or even care about your
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