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Loucas1

45 M Bear, DE

I’m looking for

  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 33–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:16am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Thank you for checking out my bio. I'm originally from Illinois. Moved to Wilmington, Delaware about 8 years ago for a great job managing programs and people. I have a wide variety of interests and am open to new experiences. Enjoy being with people and like to keep busy. I'm a Leo (7/28). According to Myers-Briggs I'm an ESTJ.

I like many types of music. Piano, violin and the human voice are my favorite instruments. I like live theater and the arts. Prefer homemade meals but also like to eat out. Like going for walks, watching movies, time with family/friends, gardening and the ocean. Bought a town home just a year ago.

I've had some unusual pets which you can ask about. I help out at the local theater and the food pantry. I'm a Social worker. I exercise 4-5 times/wk (P90X and a gym) and do yoga and meditation.

Honesty, loyalty and kindness are critical values for me. I'm looking for someone I can let my guard down with. I'm not shy. I can talk to just about anyone. However, often I'm quiet and reserved if out of my element. It's when I trust and feel safe that the more confident and humorous side of me comes out. I have a lot to say but I'm also an excellent listener. I have a great sense of humor. I'm playful and fun loving. I love to be romanced, cared for, touched, cuddled, kissed and held. I'm courteous and look for the same.

I'm very happy with my life and open to sharing it with someone special. I know relationships take time to form but ultimately I'm looking for someone I can share a deep, committed, trusting, equal relationship with. If we start with just a conversation we can see if we have "chemistry" or maybe even a great friendship.

That's a little bit about me in 2000 words or less. I look forward to hearing more about you :-) Darin
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm really enjoying my life right now. There's an even balance between work and personal. I like my job and try to avail myself of opportunities to advance my career. I am a Social Worker by trade (LCSW). Currently a program director. I place importance on building strong friendships, getting involved in extracurricular activities, staying fit, healthy and having fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good cook and feel presentation is as important as taste. That's when my artistic talents come out. One of my hobbies is working with stained glass. I also have a green thumb.
I'm a good listener. I like people and care about what they have to say.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think they notice I'm pleasant and kind. I also receive comments on my eyes, teeth and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Prefer to watch movies at home. Love suspense and to be on the edge of my seat. Like a good tear jerker once in a while and a good comedy as often as possible.
Music: Wide interest depending on my mood. Love the arts and especially theater.
Books: I'm a fan of books about travel, self improvement, leadership and fantasy.
TV: Watching Lost and like Big Bang Theory. Rarely have a show I watch religiously. The last one's I remember watching every week were shows like Will and Grace and Dexter. I like comedies, documentaries and nature and travel shows.
Food: Love deserts but generally a very healthy eater. Shop at the farmers market on a regular basis. Make my lunch everyday.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
The comfort of my home
Human kindness
Affection
Nature
Loyalty and trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about enjoying my life and making the most of every minute. I also think about my future and where I'd like to be long-term. I would also love to find a great man to build a life with if that's in the cards for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often at home watching a good movie. However, I love getting out, so I could also be at a play, traveling to the beach or eating out at a restaurant or at someones house. Very rarely go to bars or clubs but will if I'm with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll share everything with you as we get to know each other. I'm an open book. I believe good communication is key to a strong relationship and honesty is crucial to developing trust.
You should message me if
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You're interested in knowing more about me. I'm open and friendly to talk to.