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44 M Bear, DE

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Last Online
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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Thank you for checking out my bio. I'm originally from Illinois. Moved to Wilmington, Delaware about 7 years ago for a great job. I have a wide variety of interests and am open to new experiences. Enjoy being with people and like to keep busy. I'm a Leo (7/28). According to Myers-Briggs I'm an ESTJ.

I like many types of music. Piano, violin and the human voice are my favorite instruments. I like live theater and the arts. Prefer homemade meals but also like to eat out. Like going for walks, watching movies at home, time with family/friends, gardening and the ocean. Just bought a town home.

I've had some unusual pets which you can ask about. I help out at the local theater, the food pantry and I volunteer at work to be deployed to disaster sites if necessary. I'm a Social worker so that's the role I would play. I exercise 4-5 times/wk (P90X2 and a gym) and do yoga and meditation.

Honesty, loyalty and kindness are critical values for me. I'm looking for someone I can let my guard down with. I'm not shy. I can talk to just about anyone. However, often I'm quiet and reserved if out of my element. It's when I trust and feel safe that the more confident and humorous side of me comes out. I have a lot to say but I'm also an excellent listener. I have a great sense of humor. I'm playful and fun loving. I love to be romanced, cared for, touched, cuddled, kissed and held. I'm courteous and look for the same.

I'm very happy with my life and open to sharing it with someone special. I know relationships take time to form but ultimately I'm looking for someone I can share a deep, committed, trusting, equal relationship with. If we start with just a conversation we can see if we have "chemistry" or maybe even a great friendship.

That's a little bit about me in 2000 words or less. I look forward to hearing more about you :-) Darin
What I’m doing with my life
I'm really enjoying my life right now. There's an even balance between work and personal. I like my job and try to avail myself of opportunities to advance my career. I am a Social Worker by trade (LCSW). Currently a program director. I place importance on building strong friendships, getting involved in extracurricular activities, staying fit, healthy and having fun.
I’m really good at
I'm a good cook and feel presentation is as important as taste. That's when my artistic talents come out. One of my hobbies is working with stained glass. I also have a green thumb.
I'm a good listener. I like people and care about what they have to say.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think they notice I'm pleasant and kind. I also receive comments on my eyes, teeth and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Prefer to watch movies at home. Love suspense and to be on the edge of my seat. Like a good tear jerker once in a while and a good comedy as often as possible.
Music: Wide interest depending on my mood. Love the arts and especially theater.
Books: I'm a fan of books about travel, self improvement, leadership and fantasy.
TV: Watching Lost and like Big Bang Theory. Rarely have a show I watch religiously. The last one's I remember watching every week were shows like Will and Grace and Dexter. I like comedies, documentaries and nature and travel shows.
Food: Love deserts but generally a very healthy eater. Shop at the farmers market on a regular basis. Make my lunch everyday.
The six things I could never do without
Family and friends
The comfort of my home
Human kindness
Loyalty and trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about enjoying my life and making the most of every minute. I also think about my future and where I'd like to be long-term. I would also love to find a great man to build a life with if that's what's in the cards for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Often at home watching a good movie. However, I love getting out, so I could also be at a play, traveling to the beach or eating out at a restaurant or at someones house. Very rarely go to bars or clubs but will if I'm with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll share everything with you as we get to know each other. I'm an open book. I believe good communication is key to a strong relationship and honesty is crucial to developing trust.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 33–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're interested in knowing more about me. I'm open and friendly to talk to.