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LoudSmiles

55 / M / Straight / Single

Minnetonka, Minnesota

His Details

Last Online
Today – 6:04pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I suppose like many of us on here, I have a lot of good things going on in my life. But I want more. I am really looking for someone to challenge to be better, and someone who will challenge me to be better. I want to enjoy life, and get the best I can out of it. And I think it would be more fun and enjoyable to share that journey with someone who thinks the same.

I like to have fun, and at times can be very "spur of the moment". Sometimes I think I have more fun than I should, but then I think, ehh, why not?

I try to keep life simple. My philosophy is to do onto others as you would have them do onto you, work hard and give your very best in everything you do.

I have a very good sense of humor, and have pulled off some legendary practical jokes. I can be a little bit off the wall at times, but all within reason.

I would like to have a significant other in my life. I am a good friend, and I want to have a best friend.

If I had a motto, it would be: "Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Love the people who treat you right. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance - take it. If it changes your life - let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it."

The ability to communicate openingly and honestly is very key for me. While relationships can be very rewarding, they are hard work, and do not come with a few bumps along the way. A person needs to be willing to put in the time and effort to make a great relationship happen, and not run and jump ship at the first sign of difficulties. Solving problems and working through issues can be important parts of building a strong and lasting friendship.

Looking for someone who feels the same, and is looking to invest their time and energy into building something that is strong, great, and will last.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a Project Manager for a large financial company.

I am constantly looking to improve myself. I keep up with current events. I try to lead a balanced and well-rounded life, keeping in touch with family and friends. I stay very active and am seldom at rest. I like to keep busy, hopefully making a difference in the things that I do.

I played sports through HS and college, and keep pretty active. I coach youth sports, and have now for 20 years. I find it keeps me young by hanging around kids (ages 12-19), it keeps me busy, I get lots of exercise, and I get to be a positive voice in their lives.
I’m really good at
I am a good listener. I am an honest and trust-worthy friend. I have alot of empathy for people, and l look out for the best interests of others. I am an encourager, who is almost always in a positive and upbeat mood.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a quiet confidence about myself, and I care about people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let's start with books. This will be a pretty unconventional list.
1) Shine by Molly Wigand
2) Leading With The Heart by Mike Krzyzewski
3) Wherever You Are My Love Will Find You by Nancy Tillman
4) Catch Them Being Good by Tony DiCicco
5) The Best of Success by Wynn Davis
What's next, movies? Oh, this isn't good. I grew up reading comic books so I have an affinity for all things Marvel (DC isn't bad either). The Avengers, Thor, Iron Man.... the list goes on and on. From there, Serendipity, Good Will Hunting, Meet Joe Black, The Last Samurai, Rounders, Shawshank Redemption, Field of Dreams.... maybe I should stop while I am ahead....???
The six things I could never do without
1) Trust and honesty
2) Family
3) Friends
4) Work
5) Laughter
6) People to care for and people who care
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life! There is so much to do and so little time. I want to enjoy the journey, and hopefully I can find someone to share it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? I can be very spontaneous. (Last Friday I was playing pool and lasertag). Out with friends almost anywhere!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmmm..... what do you want to know? One time I .... ok, too early to tell you that!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you are looking for an honest and trustworthy guy that will treat you right. If you are looking for good conversation and exchange of thoughts and feelings. If you want to laugh!