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52 Durham, NC Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 21
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Hi, thanks for stopping by to check out my profile and Happy New Year. I hope your 2015 is the best year ever and you find that special someone. After all that is why we are on this site right?

I am enjoying a new chapter in my life and I would love to share this journey in my life with one very special woman. It is imperative for that special woman to understand I am very family oriented. Not just to my immediate family but to my closest circle of friends.

I have three awesome sons that are living on their own. The older two have careers in the Army. My youngest is attending the University of Hard Life pursuing his PhD in Real Life. I do cherish when we have together.

I have worked for a Federal Government for 30 years now. I work in RTP for an agency where the Environment is paramount. I write federal service contracts keeping the day-to-day operations going on campus. My position has the everyday stresses of project deadlines so when the day is over I am ready to do something fun and exciting. I achieve the goals I put on myself. Outside of work I am completely kick back and ready to live life to the fullest.

I seek a loyal, hardworking, intelligent and independent woman that could eventually evolve into something more but with no pressure. I am looking for a woman that is both well balanced and adventurous. One that loves to dress up to go out on the town but feels just as comfortable in jeans and flip flops at the beach. I enjoy the company of a woman with the attributes of romance and knowing how to be silly and have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work Monday thru Thursday and have every other Friday off. When I am not at work I am very active and I live my life to the fullest. I believe you can sleep when we have moved on from this life as we know it. I love outdoor activities like mountain biking, white water rafting, hiking, amusement parks (since I am a coaster freak), zip lining and disc golf. I have done hot air ballooning, luge, bobsledding, cliff jumping and a mechanical bull.

I love hiking in the mountains but I especially enjoy listening to the waves crash on to the beach. I am a huge sports fan and can adapt easily to a new season in any sport. I have season tickets to the Durham Bulls. If you like baseball we will be a sure match. I have been a Pittsburgh Steelers fan since I was a kid. The only Sunday games I miss are the ones the black and gold play on Monday and Thursday nights.

I have traveled extensively and would love to share that with someone. I have been to Mexico, Canada, Belize, Bahamas, England, Scotland, Wales, Ireland and Spain. I have been to all but five of the U.S. states. My favorite place to visit is New Orleans. The music, the cuisine and the history is pretty special. I just encountered a great adventure to the Outer Banks of North Carolina where I saw the most dramatic sunrises and sunsets, drastic climate changes and wild horses running free on the islands. It was amazing. My next trip is planned for July when I to Moab, UT and then Yellowstone National Park. I always have my camera with me on trips and love not only making memories but capturing them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music trivia. It's useless knowledge but a good conversation starter.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes or my legs. I'm told I have a nice butt. Must be because I ride my bike a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most of my reading is done at work unfortunately concerning Federal Laws and Regulations.

I do enjoy going to the movies. My favorite movie of all time is Titanic but other favorites include Last of The Mohicans, Tombstone, The Wizard of Oz and The Untouchables. As for Television, I don't watch much unless it is a sporting event. The best show ever is the Sopranos and I do follow Law & Order Special Victims Unit.

Music gets me through the day. I have a wide range of taste in music. I am really good at music trivia. It's useless knowledge but a good conversation starter. My ipod has over 26,850 songs to choose from so it depends what I am doing at the time. I enjoy all genres from Rock to Blues to Pop. My favorite artists all time are Elton, the Beatles and Garth Brooks. For current artists, I love Bruno Mars. He is simply the best entertainer/musician in music today. I truly enjoy going to concerts. The last concert I saw was Breaking Benjamin at the Carolina Rebellion. Up next, for King & Country.

As for food, I like Italian, Mexican, Seafood and well pretty much everything else. I have been told I am very good cook so I'm very open for making candlelight dinners with a nice wine for someone special.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Family
My ipod
My bike
My camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I do spend a lot of time thinking about work, In fact sometimes too much. When I'm not at work I think about where to go on my next trip.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am at the Durham Bulls Ballpark if there is a game since I have season tickets.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will tell you the good, the bad and the ugly about my life if you let me. At some point if the relationship progresses you will find out anyway.
You should message me if
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If you would like to get to know a new friend and want to see where it could go.