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57 Cave Creek, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATE: I'M TRAVELING TO ASIA AT THE MOMENT. So, please be willing to have a delay in conversation.

HISTORY: I've retired and am having fun! I've recently moved to the Phoenix area, from Los Angeles. I love my new house, but I'm still settling in.

I have had an adventurous lifestyle. My job previously was designing satellites. Earlier, in my early 20's, I spent over a year backpacking the world. In my mid-20's I started my own paintball business, one of the first in California. In my 20's and 30's I did and taught mountaineering. In my 40's my interests expanded into alternative lifestyles like Burning Man, motorcycling, and more travel. Throughout, I've loved learning, having nerdish hobbies, chasing solar eclipses, and doing a damn good job at my profession.

Now that I'm retired, I expect that I will enjoy my hobbies, do a lot of travel, and hopefully meet the woman who wants to enjoy this with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Now that I've moved from LA to Cave Creek, I am enjoying the monsoon, the heat and the pleasure of jumping in my pool!

On a slightly longer view, I plan on continuing to travel, but I also need to do some nesting. Moving is a major challenge, and making a new house a home is tough.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adventure, cooking, finances, travel, motorcycling, adult fun, having a good time with whatever is happening. I love cooking Asian food, but I try and eat anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm smart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love SF books, any good movie (3 stars), and any ethnic restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, foreign travel, internet, motorcycle, money, good food, a good woman. OK, a good woman is actually number one!!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Geek things. I love astronomy, for example. I wonder what is out there - billions of galaxies, hundreds of billions of stars each, trillions and trillions of planets.... It boggles the mind, but it is a fun exercise. Makes us realize that we are incredibly small, yet we are incredibly powerful to be able to appreciate all this beauty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with a significant other, cooking a good meal, followed by a fun evening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm really really good.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if:

a) You like a smart guy
b) You enjoy adventure.
c) You are smart, witty, and love life
d) You are not a flake, can handle your own finances, and can be independent (but you like a man in your life too)
e) You would enjoy a relationship with an interesting man.
f) You may have similar interests in travel as I do - we should discuss.
g) You are comfortable with your sexuality, and enjoy it.
h) LOTS of EXTRA CREDIT if you have the pleasure of being independent and not tied down to a job. I'm not.