I am pretty easy-going, but a bit perfectionist & grouchy; I have dark hair, that's a little curly; blue eyes; great smile, (no, not grouchy ALL of the time,) a quick wit, dry humor & extensive knowledge of odd-ball things.
I am a pretty intense, primal person and tend to make people squirm without even trying, or really noticing. I get a lot of comments about how I know what I want, I'm pretty specific, I'm very forthright... I'm not here to play games or lead people on. I know who I am and I am presenting myself to you as plainly as possible so you know if you're up for it. Anything less would be wasting your time. Yeah?
*I'M POLYAMOROUS!!!* I am looking for SANE company, who understands that I am married, not interested in monogamy and have other relationships that span the scale of intimacy.
I would love to meet new friends because I like interesting people with interesting views... No strings attached. No sex needed. If you want to be accepted for who you are without having to explain why, I'm your gal.
**Disclaimer to the ruder of OKC!**
Please don't contact me if you're only interested in sex. I have dildos for meaningless sex. If you cannot see being in a platonic, SEXLESS relationship with me then move on. I love sex, but HATE HATE HATE booty calls & being sent texts to arrange rendezvous.
I love well thought-out introduction email, and rambling ones that give me a little lookie-loo into your thought process are even better.
You have never met me, please do NOT demand my contact information as an opening line. How about thinking of something in addition to "Hi, how are you?" in your greeting? It would be awesome to know you gave enough of a s#it to at least READ my profile. I guess you've gotten this far so you're not doing too bad...
I work in the computer tech field & as a writer of fantasy, fiction and sci-fi. I like sci-fi books, SCA, card, board & RPG's, making fun of teenagers in the mall. I like having people over to our house for dinner, games, hanging out because I love to cook, everything & anything.
I drink a little but I don't smoke tobacco... anymore. I switched to an eCig.
I'd really like someone to hang out with who's able to share, love deeply & without strings/games and give a mean massage... I'm a sucker for an awesome massage. I'm really OK with just hanging out, but not OK with simple sex, even though I don't get attached easily. I'm also not OK with clingy attachment.
I like people who have an opinion & know how to state it without being pushy or nasty about it. I'm even OK with civil arguments.
I am sensual, Intelligent, and amazing