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33 F Syracuse, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:22pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First, I'm a writer. If you take a long look at these paragraphs, you'll notice that I didn't just slap some words in the text box and consider it good. I have taken the time to introduce myself to you, by proxy. I consider it rude to receive a first letter with less than 50 words in it; please, don't insult me. Introduce yourself and talk about things we may have in common. (Hint: There are several topic suggestions right in my profile... like a treasure hunt!)

I am pretty easy-going, but a bit perfectionist & grouchy; I have dark hair, that's a little curly; blue eyes; great smile, (no, not grouchy ALL of the time,) a quick wit, dry humor & extensive knowledge of odd-ball things.

I am a pretty intense, primal person and tend to make people squirm without even trying, or really noticing. I get a lot of comments about how I know what I want, I'm pretty specific, I'm very forthright... I'm not here to play games or lead people on. I know who I am and I am presenting myself to you as plainly as possible so you know if you're up for it. Anything less would be wasting your time. Yeah?

I am ONLY looking for feminine company. Someone who understands that I am married, not interested in monogamy but willing to accept someone in a life-long kinda way and that I have other relationships that span the scale of intimacy.

I would love to meet new friends because I like interesting people with interesting views... No strings attached. No sex needed. If you want to be accepted for who you are without having to explain why, I'm your gal.

**Disclaimer to the ruder of OKC!**
Please don't contact me if you're only interested in sex. I have dildos for meaningless sex. If you cannot see being in a platonic, SEXLESS relationship with me then move on.

You have never met me, please do NOT demand my contact information as an opening line. How about thinking of something in addition to "Hi, how are you?" in your greeting? I love well thought-out introduction email, and rambling ones that give me a little lookie-loo into your thought process are even better.

I guess you've gotten this far so you're not doing too bad...

I'm a writer of fantasy, fiction and sci-fi. I like sci-fi books, SCA, card, board & role-playing games. I like having people over to our house for dinner, games, hanging out because I love to cook, everything & anything.

I'd really like someone to hang out with who's able to share, love deeply & without strings/games and give a mean massage... I'm a sucker for an awesome massage. I'm really OK with just hanging out.

I like people who have an opinion & know how to state it without being pushy or nasty about it. I'm even OK with civil arguments.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, Living, loving... mmm loving. Fighting with my sisters, Flirting, Dancing, Hanging out, Game night with the kids.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, Fixing things, breaking things,
allowing people to comprehend the situation, Letting people be ignorant if they insist upon it...
Fixing shit when it's going wrong, letting things ride to see where it takes me, reading, talking, memorizing, repeating, teaching, learning, making the bed, messing the bed up =P
fighting, mediating, making people feel loved/good/interesting/appreciated, making people feel completely useless in a short amount of time...
Scattering, organizing, planning, winging-it, maneuvering, impartial solutions, evaluation, being stable, being crazy, bolstering egos, breaking egos, toasting eggos, communication...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
From the letters I get, the first thing people notice is that I'm pretty. I have big eyes and a pretty voice. I sing almost compulsively, have near-perfect pitch & 8 octaves, although, since I haven't sung "pro" for a while & some of my extremes are rusty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Well, if I can't decide I just pick the one with the blue cover. I haven't been wrong yet & I've been reading a novel every 3-5 days since I was 10. We can catagorize them by author for quick reference:
Piers Anthony, Ann McCaffrey(RIP!), Orson Scott Card, Kevin J. Anderson, Robert A. Heinlein, Janet Evanovich, Isaac Asimov, Douglas Adams, Mercedes Lackey, Neil Gaiman, to name a few. I like Audio Novels too... I travel a lot & it's BORING. If you see a name there you know, ask me if I've read the same books. If not I'll get right to it! ;-D

Movies: Star Wars, Tank Girl, 5th Element, Demolition Man, Shawn of the Dead, Stardust, The Librarian(all of them), Night at the Museum, Serenity, Sin City, Midsummer Night's Dream, Much Ado About Nothing, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Pan's Labyrinth, Avengers...

TV: Game of Thrones, Once Upon A Time, Walking Dead, Castle, Grimm, Firefly, 10th Kingdom, Weeds, Dexter, House M.D., Good Eats, MythBusters, Doctor Who, Chuck, Iron Chef, Invader Zim...

Food: ummm... How about what I DON'T like...?

I won't eat shrimp, anything flavored like shrimp, or with shrimp bits or pureed shrimp.
Same for peas, but I do like pea pods/spring peas.
No Horse Radish or pepperoni either...
Everything else is fair game & I probably know how to cook it too!

Music: Errr... a little of everything. My profile on YouTube is PerverseLeigh. You are welcome to go look, but I'm feeling too lazy to copy everything over to here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Cheese;

2. Intelligent human contact;

3. Sex;

4. Entertainment;

5. my Fingers... unless I can borrow yours;

6. Electronics and the connections to run them, I mean, if you REALLY were on a deserted island & you had to choose what you couldn't do w/o... WTF are you gonna do with that computer if you don't have ELECTRICITY!? Don't get me started on the cable box...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My writing; I'm obsessed. The Zombie Apocalypse... are you ready?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not working, I'm good for almost anything. My faves are dancing, drinking, movies, games of any sort that don't involve crying... Suggest something! ;-)
I love to go bar-hopping, but none of my buddies can keep up so I usually end up bringing them home early. :/ Maybe one day I'll have a drinkin buddy that I don't have to pour into bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I kick people. I like to look in my spam folder & read the subject lines for fun... "Eat yourself skinny!" Really? Hun, if I could eat myself...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*You are gainfully employed. This is a DEAL BREAKER folks!

* You are over 21. Another Deal Breaker! I like to be able to drink without fear of the law!

*You don't mind a grouch. (Some call it "Bitc#".)

*You don't think "hey sexy1 im horny 4 u" or anything remotely like it is a great pick-up line. (Come on! I mean; Seriously?) Try using the proven trifecta of spelling, grammar & interest.

*You have an opinion, even if it's contrary to mine. I'm not interested in holding up the entire conversation. If I were, I'd talk to my d@mn self. Well... Sometimes I do...

*You don't think I "Need saving" or want to "Trade-up" or "Haven't found the right person". Seriously. I like my life. If you want to change it, please try from as far away as possible & without actually contacting me.

hmmm... Yup that's about it.