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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 44–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:08pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a passionate andcreative Christian. Music movies TV, animals and conversation are some of my interests. I'm romantic spiritual and intellectual. Humor is very important to me. I'm also interested in psychology and interpersonal communication.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing, graphic design music songwriting screenwriting, singing, playing guitar and keyboards. I've worked for radio stations, ad agencies, and design firms.

I have a passion for animals. Besides taking in abandoned cats, I've raised a baby kitten from a few days old and have rescued a number of feral cats.

I just started teaching English to Chinese people, filling in for regular teacher during the summer. Only one hour a week, but I'm enjoying it and the class laughs at my pitiful drawings on the blackboard, especially my depictions of a zebra and an evening gown. (Two separate pictures... not a zebra in an evening gown.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making music, making people laugh, making carrot cake, making out.

Playing guitar, Jeopardy, writing, conversing, singing, caring.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dimples get the most comments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Bible My Utmost For His Highest by Oswald Chambers

Music: Alison Krauss Steely Dan Shawn Colvin, Jonatha Brooke, Dawes, Brett Dennen, The Weepies, Ingrid Michaelson Bruce Hornsby, Kathleen Edwards, Mindy Smith, Laura Story, Todd Rundgren, James Taylor, Lucinda Williams, SoCal 70s pop/rock

TV: Anything on Investigation Discovery, Jeopardy Bob's Burgers The Kelly File, Special Report with Bret Baier, Science of Stupid, Homicide Hunter: Lt. Joe Kenda, Burn Notice, Law & Order, Flea Market Flip, Family Feud, Mr. Ed, Green Acres, Seinfeld, How It's Made, Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee, Bored To Death

Movies: Anything by Alfred Hitchcock North By Northwest Vertigo Strangers On A Train Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Begin Again Rudderless, Election, Wristcutters: A Love Story, Big Fish Laura, Safety Not Guaranteed, The Devil and Daniel Johnston, Wallace & Gromit, This Is Spinal Tap, The Apostle, Hard Candy, Winged Migration, Smashed, Kissing Jessica Stein, Sweet Land, Next Stop Wonderland, The Puffy Chair, documentaries, 1940s & 1950s B&W – especially film noir, indie dramedies

Favorite actors: Philip Seymour Hoffman, Robert Duvall, Hope Davis, Patricia Clarkson

Food: turkey dinner, salad with mixed greens, scrambled eggs (not too dry, not too runny – moist but fluffy), pizza, fruit juices, ice in most drinks (I really like ice), green beans, white chocolate macadamia nutcookies, mint chocolate chip ice cream, Italian sub sandwiches, my own carrot cake. I've had my share of gourmet and ethnic fare, expensive restaurants in NYC and other places, but given the choice, I prefer simple down-home cuisine. I'm blessed to enjoy what I cook and bake.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, family, friends, my cats music, laughter.

Some material items I could do without, but would like to have:
iced tea, my Mac, Internet access, guitars shorts, my pickup truck, cotton blankets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Which is the proper way to address Hello Kitty? Is it “Hello, Hello Kitty” or just “Hello, Kitty?”
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At Bible study, relaxing at home, or at a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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According to OKC, I'm “less suave.” I apologize if suaveness is a dealbreaker for you. I will never be suave, and I'm okay with that.
You should message me if
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You're compassionate, cute, smart, fun, sexy, quirky.

I'm open-minded and not locked into a physical "type." But I do like a curvy woman, girl-next-door, or girl with glasses. And if you're a curvy girl-next-door with glasses...