Transplant from Southern Illlinois, about 100 miles SE of St. Louis, MO. Been here since 85. I have a tendency to be loud and boisterous(the Italian in me). I love to laugh, and am very young in my head and heart plus I have a little touch of "good old boy" in me! My favorite sport is "American" Football(da Bears) and I catch the X Games, when they are on. I am not a player and don't believe in "open" relationships, aka-A one woman man seeks a one man woman, but I am willing to enjoy female companionship doing whatever until that bell rings.

Just goin' with the flow and not being somebody else's idea of "all that", aka-Just bein' me. Keeping in touch with my kids to be sure they are doing OK!

A serious fixer of stuff and I read directions. A great Navigator on road trips. I am a good cook with Italian and BBQ(real BBQ slow smoked so it's juicy and sweet) and good home cooked comfort food(how about soup from scratch on a cold night). I can also grill a pretty mean steak and/or chicken breast or good old hamburgers and hotdogs. Growing some of my own spices, and creating a great veggie garden(Love fresh tomatoes). I can do laundry and iron when necessary.

I get compliments on being polite.

Favorite foods are anything that is prepared properly, but good Northern Italian is #1. Green tea(fave is Gunpowder Pinhead). I have never met a desert I didn't like, especially rich chocolate ones. I drink alcohol for the taste. I love good beer and exotic mixed drinks and well made Tanqueray Martinis, and T&T's. I used to be more of an oenophile but still enjoy good wine(I don't drink it alone, it is too much like passion to me!). I think 99% of the TV programs that I receive suck so about all I really follow is ESPN.(I actually listen to the radio more than anything else). I don't really have a favorite book but the last one I read and enjoyed was "Love in the Time of Cholera". I am a music FREAK! I enjoy almost all kinds except C&W. I enjoy art and exploring Old Buildings and architecture and hope to visit Glacier Park before it becomes Missing Glacier Park along with all the Natural Wonders of our country.

My 2 boys. My sister and her boyfriend. My best friend. Good Italian style salami! from St. Louis, MO(I grew up on it). Trader Joe's. Music and KPFK. AMERICAN FOOTBALL especially, Da Bears.

Listening to those that would make the world a better place and trying to do things that help them. "Where is my woman? Can I bring her home? Have I driven her away? Is she gone?"Stephen Stills, aka-Looking for that special someone.

Nothing unusual, just hanging out in my place.

I am pretty much an open book so I can't really come up with something that isn't already in my profile or the over 2000 questions I've answered and the 20+ tests I have taken(all answered honestly). If you've still got a question just IM or shoot me a message. I will reply and answer it if I can or want to. FYI-If your looking for a hair-less little boy it ain't me! Real men have body hair and are damn proud of it!

If you just want to hang out and do nothing but talk over coffee, soda, or libations. If you want to do things with somebody that has a brain, emotions, and a heart. If you want someone to rock your world(good or bad). If you aren't afraid of snug clothes, swimsuits, or cute shorts(on you of course). If you think we could become friends with benefits or maybe just plain old lovers. If you like cuddling, deep kissing and being carressed and embraced. If you want to meet somebody that is loyal, honest. and real, that YOU can depend on.