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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 8
Open relationship
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
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I'm a 27 year old musical theatre performer (when employed). Happily in an open relationship with a girl whom I love. I consider myself a feminist and pretty open-minded in general. Even as far as people who say that. Seriously just try to offend or shock me ;).

I'm partial to entertainment and substances. Recently finally got around to reading Infinite Jest so of course, I'm reevaluating my relationship with both of those things.

I prefer interesting people to "cool" people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moved from DC a few years ago. Been making my living as an actor for the last eight years, though I've been focusing on writing for the first time lately and I'm quite jazzed about that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, acting, taking drugs, keeping eye contact and holding my eyes open, talking, being interesting/interested, not getting physically injured, selling things, leading a weird life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes. Ain't really no two ways about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In no real order (except the first thing is obviously the most important thing):

Stephen Sondheim, Patti Smith, Marc Maron, Neil Young, Animal Collective, Warren Zevon, Judd Apatow, REM, David Foster Wallace, The Fall, Tony Kushner, Pavement, Frank Zappa, Passing Strange, Spaulding Gray, The Who, David Foster Wallace, tUnE-yArDs, Scott Aukerman, Stephen Hawking, 12 Years a Slave, Stephen Levitt, Rupaul's Drag Race, Mad Men, Trash, Flesh, Evil Dead 2, LCD Soundsystem, Gossip Girl, Bock and Harnick, Janet Frame, Charles Bukowski, Brother's Keeper, Breaking Bad, The OC, Pretty Little Liars, The Wire, Kander and Ebb, Louie, Stravinsky, Woody Allen, Adam Guettel, Lawrence Krauss, Neitzche, Keith Jarrett, Keeping Up with the Kardashians, Groundhog Day, Waking Life, Wilfred, Chuck Klosterman, Capturing The Friedmans, Marina and the Diamonds, The Brian Jonestown Massacre, Todd Rundgren, Paul Thomas Anderson, Milk (the movie), Kanye West, South Park, Socrates, Sam Harris, Seinfeld, Futurama, Werner Herzog, I Heart Huckabees, Bill Hicks, NPR, Bad Brains, Embrace, In Cold Blood, Rites of Spring, Lady Gaga, R. Crumb and Francesca Woodman. Lots of other stuff too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Conversation, art, drugs, sex, ideals, food/shelter/water?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All of the other things that I've written here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Only boring people wait 'til Friday.

I haven't had a real "job" in a while...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Let's do a bunch! I'm not very private:


I've done everything sexually with a guy, while on ecstasy. Didn't enjoy it (the only way to be sure you aren't gay!).

I've been homeless for a documentary. It turned about to be a documentary about how weird I am and how confused I was when I was 19. Mixed blessing.

I genuinely think Gone with the Wind is not a good movie in almost any sense.

I'm a cuckold fetishist. I really get off on girls in with talking about or showing me them getting down with other guys. One of the main reasons I could never do a "traditional"relationship.

I almost never turn down drugs when offered.

Ice cream probably has, at times in my life, comprised a significant portion of my diet.
You should message me if
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If you're open minded? I mean its hard to turn down someone really attractive though...even if they have shitty ideals. I don't know. Who knows? Give it a shot!

But I reiterate that I'm in an open relationship so I'm not looking for a girlfriend. I hate the concept of "meaningless sex" though because it definitely seems inaccurate. Who know's what they're really "looking for" though? It's hard to pin down. I definitely like: meeting amazing people, forging lifelong connections, and learning from each other. Hope to hear from ya!