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LovesScifi

31 M Uxbridge, MA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, my name is Jim.

I am a kind, caring, sensitive guy. I can be sappy and romantic, I enjoy puns and "Dad jokes". I don't go to clubs or get all dressed up fancy like. I would rather curl up on the couch and watch TV or movies than go out to a crowded place. I play a lot of tabletop roleplaying games like Dungeons and Dragons, and generally am always trying to have fun no matter what I do. I have a very large Irish family that I enjoy spending time with, they are your typical crazy relatives. Though I prefer the term eccentric.

I care about social issues, gender issues and such. I try to be socially conscious, non-judgmental, and open minded. I live by one simple rule, Don't be a Jerk.

I am Pansexual and Polyamorous. I would prefer that any relationship be with fellow geeky, Poly people. I currently have one romantic partner that would be considered my Primary (Though I use such terms solely in a meta context) I am not here for casual hookups with strangers or One-night-stands, I need to be friends with someone at least before engaging in any sexy fun times :)

I won't ever lie about myself, or make myself out to be something I am not. Being my friend can be a bit difficult at times, I have Aspergers and am very shy and awkward for awhile until I get to know you. If you are unfamiliar with Aspergers you can Google it, or ask me more about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am going to college with the ultimate goal of being a medical coder/biller. It does not leave me with much free time, but I do try and make time for fun and games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, driving (when the weather is good), being diplomatic, being patient (to a fault actually). I am sure there are other things but I have already tooted my own horn enough here.

What I am not good at is "selling myself" I am not really great at talking about myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The fact that I am quiet, shy, and awkward. I am also very polite and almost never in a rush. Also that I am fat. I am a jolly fellow :) And I am okay with this.

I have also been told I remind people of Samwell Tarly from Game of Thrones

In the winter time I get funny looks all the time. I tend to "run" very warm. So I tend to wear shorts far longer into the winter than is usual. It is great for cuddling though, a favorite activity of mine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This section has been edited far too often. so I will simply keep it short and simple. Rather than list them specifically I will give vague answers. My tastes change too often to pick a favorite.

I enjoy Science Fiction and Fantasy television, books, and movies

I can not properly explain what kind of music I like as I like most all music. I rarely listen to music, mostly just while driving in the car.

I like simple foods, not a fan of spicy foods. I enjoy "comfort" foods, like Mac and Cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Other than the sarcastic (air, water, shelter..etc)
1) Internet Access, even if its just on my phone.
2) Family, I don't hang out with them as much as I would like.
3) Someone to talk to when I get in my own head as it were.
4) My car, I don't Like the feeling of being "stuck" somewhere without a way home.
5) Now for the silly answer of Dunkin Donuts Sweet Iced Tea.
6) Books, Without them life would be very boring.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and anything, mostly the future, sometimes the past. But mostly I am thinking about whatever Show I had recently seen or will be seeing. I really love Television and movies, especially Science-Fiction this can not be stressed enough. oh, also all the usual things (money, family, love...)

I also spend a lot of time thinking about, reading about, talking about social issues, Feminism, Gender, Sex and Sexuality, Politics, stuff like that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home watching Television on the internet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a fetlife account.
https://fetlife.com/users/2251351
I am mostly vanilla but I have a little bit of a kinky side.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The only reason you should contact me is if you want to. Consent is a big deal to me.

I am looking for a friend, someone to watch TV with me and hang out, play board games, be geeks together.

I need to clarify that for me, casual sex does not mean I will just hook up with someone after having just met. To me it means a recreational activity between good friends. That's how I feel about it.

You can also message me if you need someone to talk to, vent to, or what have you. I enjoy listening to peoples stories and I like helping people in anyway I can.

My memory is not the best, especially for names. If I have looked at your profile more than once it is most likely because I have simply forgotten that I already looked. I am very shy so I tend to not contact people right way.