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35 F Kirkland, WA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:12pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I like big books, and I cannot lie.

Also, I feel getting to know someone who isn't right for me is not a waste of time. Exchanging laughs, and perspectives is fun. Think of it, in what other time in history have people been able to be this intimate with potential friends and suitors in this virtual capacity? It's science fiction dewd! This is good stuff!
[Edit] Okay sure, getting to know someone that I'm not a match with isn't a waste of time. But, I'm getting burned out on those types of meetings. . . I want sparks! Talking until the sun comes up! An amazing first kiss! Where are you sparky, talky, kissy person!?

By far, mannerisms, humor, intelligence, and an easy going attitude are the biggest factors that determine chemistry between me and another person. The next layer on top of that, which increases an attraction, is a big tall seasoned gamer. If you only own a Wii, "your princess is in another castle."
The reason I seek a gaming partner so much, is the mutual exploration, discovery and surprise right from the comfort of home. Rain or shine, any season, any age, people can connect in a fantasy world. It's a very rich way to bond with a partner.
However, I'm open to all sorts of lifestyles. It just needs to include elements of adventure.

I like reading sci-fi and fantasy, photography, road trips, movies, Disneyland, Vegas, a pint with friends, healthy cooking, walks, animals (I've been called Ms. Doolittle many times), finding hot springs, jacuzzis and painting.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working and playing - I'm an Admin by day and all sorts of things by night.

Appreciating the little things - Socks fresh out of the dryer, sunsets, and petting puppies.

Branching out - I am trying new things, and meeting new people.

Exercising - I love the look and feel of my plus sized body. However, I want more stamina. I'm not diabetic, I have great blood pressure and chlorestorol levels, but I still need to lose. So, I'm starting a weight loss program. I actually got a job WORKING there! Which is great, because it would otherwise be impossible for me to afford.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people - Organizing your closet, painting that spare bedroom, and being emotional support for that project you just can't seem to finish. I'm your guy! Er, girl. PERSON.

Cooking - My specialties are breakfast, steaks, stir frys, and Mexican.

Making people feel good - I tell those few close to me how much I enjoy them and how great they are. I enjoy going out of my way to do something nice.

Animals - Seriously. If it's alive, and not an insect, lizard, or snake, I love it and it becomes my friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A dude would probably say my cleavage.
A new friend or co-worker would probably say how kind I am to everyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorites are Thai (Thai Tom's), Mediterranean (Mediterranean Kitchen), Civeche, Steak (John Howie & Jak's Grill), Mexican (Pasion Tequila), gourmet burgers (Lunchbox Laboratory), Southern (Carolina Smoke and Kingfish Cafe) and amazing breakfast spots (Maltby Cafe, Beths, Brown Bag).

I don't watch t.v. but sometimes I make time for Game of Thrones, Almost Human, Doctor Who, Cosmos, and other sci-fi stuff.

Love love sci-fi and fantasy. I'm usually reading 2-5 books at a time. I'm sorta fickle with my tastes on any given night.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't think anything. Honestly, I secretly wish for a zombie apocalypse so we all have to start from nothing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I also think about Carl Sagan stuff and future vacations. And recently about okcupid. We check all these boxes and rate people. It's just weird.
And I think a lot about getting a puppy. Sadly, it's not the right time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking, reading, going to the movies, walking, hopefully gaming with friends, or playing with animals.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I watch porn. All kinds. OK, not ALL kinds. But still.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are known to others as having a strong moral code, treat people right, and are not judgmental, plus one or more of the following:
~You are confident, have a healthy ego, and at the same time enjoy building people up.
~You would like to have me at your game night.
~You have a jacuzzi and want me in it.
~You have a dog I can play with.
~You are a computer geek and want an apprentice.
~ You like photography and making videos.
~You are a gamer and would like me as your player two.
~You are 6'0+ (I know it's shallow, but attraction is weird).

Some time saving tips. I will not respond to you if:
You have a profile pic of your washboard abs
You are shorter than me
You appear to be even slightly religious
You struggle with the written word