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LoveslifeinCali

32 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine
Income
$250,000–$500,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So here's my dilemma. I'm a sweet Jewish doctor, everyone loves me at work, and I have a best friend for whom I would take a bullet. Additionally, I come from a good family, I keep in shape, and I am knowledgeable about many different subjects. This is all true. Upon discovering this, Jewish mothers typically fawn or faint or both...ok that's not true, but it is in theory.

However...I have discovered that most girls do not care about these things.

It seems that most girls are only interested in someone who can convince them that he is NOT actually interested in them, even though he CLEARLY is. I thought this was weird, but when I tried it, it turned out to be true! The more I acted like I didn't like a girl, the more she liked me!

My first reaction was like, "really?? Are you serious?" But now I've learned two things: 1) Girls are strange and 2) I am not a girl, hence I will never understand them.

So back to my dilemma. I'm not that good at convincing someone who I'm really interested in that I'm NOT actually interested in her. I am quite confident that she WOULD in fact be interested in me once we get past the 'convincing her I'm not interested in her' stage, but since I don't like that stage, I have an annoying problem.

So here's what I'm doing about it. I like you. It's true. I think you're really pretty.

If you want me to pretend I don't like you, I can do that, because I know girls like that, but I'm not that good at it, and I just come across as a jerk, when really I'm a pretty sweet guy.

So if I email you, it means I like you. If you want to play the pretend I don't game, I'll do that for a couple of emails, and I'll tease you about it forever, but I'm not interested in girls who TRULY only want what they can't have. If this is you, please just kindly disregard my email and save us both the time.

If you only PRETEND to want what you can't have, but really actually DO want something that you want regardless of whether you have it or not, please respond to my email and we will have a really fun time getting to know each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Anesthesiologist. Best. Job. Ever.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job, ping pong, quickly learning new things, cracking people up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my smile, and the fact that I look a LITTLE too young to be your anesthesiologist...they always love me in the end though ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books/Magazines/Blogs/Websites: Game of Thrones series, Enders Game, lots of non fiction recently - Steve Jobs, Thinking Fast and Slow, The Economist, reddit, Gawker, Grantland.

Shows: Breaking Bad (Best show ever), Mad Men (I'm way behind, so no spoilers!), Family Guy, Game of Thrones.

Movies: The Godfather Part I & II, Zoolander, The Usual Suspects, Anchorman, most Bond films, I Love You Man, The 40 year old virgin, The Avengers, The Dark Knight.

Music: The Xx, Mumford and Sons, Coldplay, Green Day, Pink Floyd, The Beatles (obviously, given how I started this profile), Led Zeppelin, DMB, Adele, Rhianna, Lindsey Sterling, YEEZUS
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Kindle/Kindle app for the iPad.

2. Propofol. Seriously this is a miracle drug for Anesthesia.

3. College/NFL Football

4. Blasting my music on the drive home from work.

5. Powder skiing.

6. Beautiful friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Understanding how things work, visualizing how to improve myself, appreciating how amazing my life is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying a new restaurant/bar around the city, hanging with my friends, seeing a movie, going to a concert, getting on a plane for a weekend getaway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes cry at the end of books...even Atlas Shrugged got me, and I mean, come on..
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a little weird, you're a little smarty pants, or you're a little awesome in general.

If you don't know where my intro comes from, you should google it, listen to the whole album, then you should thank me for introducing you to something so incredible.