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LovingCupATX

46 Memphis, TN Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:17am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Give me a little drink from your loving cup...just one drink and I'll fall down drunk!" - The Stones

It's impossible to tell my story without song, as my life literally revolves around being an advocate for musicians & artists. My professional life, friends and family all seem to be connected to the music.

That being said, as wonderful as it is to experience a lot of amazing live music, I really cherish my down time and I'm in search of a wingman who can appreciate a night out at a show as well as a night curled up on the couch and everything in between.

When I'm off the clock, I love to fire up the grill, pour a glass of wine and listen to the sound of the needle as it kisses the vinyl of a favorite record. I'm a sucker for a spontaneous road trip but crave down time with equal passion. I love kids and being around them...and am an "auntie" to many although none of them live here in Memphis.

I have found it impossible to date and find a romantic partner in the "family circle" and realize that the time has come to reach out to the ol interweb for some guidance, inspiration and perhaps an introduction to someone who shares the same lust for life!

"Yes, I am nitty gritty and my shirt's all torn,
But I would love to spill the beans with you till dawn." - The Stones

Sounds cliche but I'm looking for a best friend and a lover. I'm attracted to those that have a strong sense of "self" and a fearless heart. One who is inspired, following a dream as it relates to a career, but who is grounded, thoughtful, and compassionate with himself as well as others. It would probably help if you're social and really enjoy people. Funny is good...I even dig snarky! Cocky and entitled, not so much. Appreciation for music and creative culture mandatory and appreciating culinary arts would probably be helpful. I didn't speak the language of football until I moved to Austin in '07, and now on Sundays [during football season] you'll probably find me shouting and waiving my terrible towel. I'm new to town and figured it'd be fun to have a Memphis team to care about and make life more interesting...so GO Grizzlies!

One last thing, and this is important...I'm a big fan of making out and you should be too. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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Choosing my adventure... I've been coming to Memphis for 20+ years and finally have the opportunity to actually live here! I'm excited to immerse myself in this beautiful, rich culture - Musical and otherwise! You want to show me a little piece of your world?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love the art of pulling together and preparing the perfect meal. I'm a nurturer and love making people feel warm and welcome and have a gift for creating "community" where ever I go. I'm a resourceful fix it person... and usually the "go to" girl whether someone needs personal or professional advice, directions to the club or what to order off the menu. Be careful what you ask for though, as I'm known to be direct and have no problem telling people close to me what I really think, and after all these years, I also have a really good B.S. detector! Life's too short to surround yourself with people who have no self awareness or gratitude. I love to find "the perfect gift" or to create the "perfect bite" and take great pride in presentation... whether that's on a plate or when you walk into my house. I believe that the best life experiences are a joy to (and feed) all of the senses.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
So I've been told, recently by a good friend , that this area of my profile was "off" a bit and that the first thing that he and others notice about me is my "joy". That made me smile.

On a physical front I've been told that people notice my green smiling eyes and that I smell good ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I spy with my little eye... this might take me a while, so I'll try to hit the highlights to paint the picture but I'd rather explore the details with someone who shares some of the same passions and curiosities that I do!

"The vey essence of romance is uncertainty" ~ Oscar Wilde

BOOKS on Music: LIFE by Keith Richards, All You Need Is Ears (Sir. George Martin), Last Train To Memphis (or anything by Peter Guralnick actually), Twenty Thousand Roads - The Ballad of Gram Parsons & His Cosmic American Music, Laurel Canyon - The Inside Story of Rock and Roll's Legendary Neighborhood, Shout Sister Shout! (bio on Sister Rosetta Tharpe), Bill Graham Presents, Chronicles (Bob Dylan), I'm With The Band (Pamela Des Barres) Soulsville, USA, Loretta Lynn's You're Cookin' It Country (cookbook) and so many more!

What else is in my spiritual toolbox?
"Insights bring truth, which is love in action. If it doesn't flow, it stagnates"
~ daily gift from Deepak

Deepak Chopra's Book of Secrets, Shakti Gawain's Living In The Light, Paulo Coelho, The Four Agreements, Arianna Huffington On Becoming Fearless, and The Tao of Willie (Willie Nelson).

Shows/Movies: I'm not a TV hater by any stretch... Since I'm out and about quite a bit I do find myself needing to turn off the world and dig into the tele from time to time. Happy to have a DVR so I can zip thru shows quickly when I have a moment. Being a foodie, I get really into competitive cooking shows Iron Chef, Top Chef, etc. I also dig Sons of Anarchy, American Horror Story, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Weeds, The Bridge and guilty pleasure is Project Runway. Lets face it, I unapologetically like a reality tv show where creativity is involved.

It's Only rock n roll but I like it ...
The record collection is almost impossible to list here since music is such a large part of my life. Stations I listen to most on my Sirius XM radio include: Underground Garage, Outlaw Country, Soul Town, First Wave (need my dark wave fix), The Spectrum and Classic Vinyl. I'm clearly a fan of The Stones... so let's take it from there. Muddy Waters, Howlin' Wolf, Gram Parsons, Booker T & The MG's, Staple Singers, Al Green, James Brown, Sly & The Family Stone, Prince, Elvis,Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers, The Band, Flying Burrito Brothers, The Allman Brothers, George Jones, Waylon Jennings, Merle Haggard, Johnny Cash, X, Lone Justice, Duran Duran, Japan, Hanoi Rocks, T Rex, The Cult, Janes Addiction, The Pretenders, Alejandro Escovedo, The Supersuckers, Hayes Carll, Jesse Dayton, North Mississippi Allstars and my sweet Lucinda Williams.

That's a good start I guess...

FOOD?! Yes please. One of the greatest pleasures in life is to share a well prepared meal with friends and lovers. Thai, Vietnamese, Indian, Sushi or Japanese, French, Mediterranean, light Italian, Mexican, Southern American, Texas or Memphis BBQ, flavorful vegan/clean, juicing. I'm a fan of it all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good song, a good bottle of wine, the smell of coffee in the morning, being mesmerized by the stars on a clear desert night and a good set of wheels to take me home to the ones I love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fact that Happiness is a choice... So is Stress. How can I bring love and joy to myself and those around me, where did I leave the keys to my hovercraft and where is my wingman, damn it?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What adventure will present itself this weekend. I'm not really sure what a typical Friday night actually is...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My prom date won a "Nick Rhodes look a like contest" the night before a Duran Duran show. ;)
You should message me if
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You're inspired to do so! It's rare that I will be the one to initiate a message to someone but I will rate your profile highly, as a wink. I figure at that point, you'll check me out and if you like what you see then you'll take it from there.