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Loving_Loner

36 Philadelphia, PA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I spend tons of time working alone at home, writing and such. I spend an additional tons of time working at my full-time job. Occasionally I go out with a friend or lover or have someone over to visit.

When I go out, I like to see and hear things - music and poetry and art or you could suggest something. That would be welcome, actually.

I like polyamorous men, and I'm polyamorous, myself. I'm not looking to spend a ton of time with anyone but maybe you have just a little time and you'd wanna meet?

I make a poetry zine. It's literally a tiny zine. It's 2.5" X 3.5" and 14 pages plus the covers, bound with hemp string. I just started it and am working on the second issue.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
(I just told you.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing
listening
relaxing
thinking
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
idk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Writers:
A Series of Unfortunate Events by Lemony Snickett
The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy
The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck
The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
Housekeeping by Marilynne Robinson
Richard Brautigan
Edna St. Vincent Millay
William Carlos Williams
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan
Dr. Seuss

Movies / TV:
Steven Universe
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
What's Eating Gilbert Grape?
Pulp Fiction
Breakfast at Tiffany's
Mulholland Drive
Fargo
Arrested Development
Sports Night
Seinfeld

Music:
Nirvana
The Smiths
The Breathing Light
The Kominas
The Weeknd
Moor Mother Goddess
Malportado Kids
Space Chumpy
Kanye West
Radiohead
Drake
Childish Gambino
The Avett Brothers
Dwight Yoakum
The Be Good Tanyas
Phil Collins
Sinead O'Connor
Van Morrison

Food:
Indian
Chinese
Falafel
tomato pie
fresh fruit
hot cereals
cold cereals
raw vegetables
grilled vegetables
roasted vegetables
squash
mushrooms
asparagus
bok choy
cole slaw
sweet potatoes
kale smoothies
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee, peace and quiet, seltzer water, some type of nutritious and robust cooking oil, a tool with which to cut my hair, a language
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things I'm writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be at a poetry event or at home or at another event like a music show or some kind of first friday thing. I'm really not very habitual.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(question doesn't really make sense, a lot of people don't answer this, and i'm with them.)
You should message me if
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you feel like it.