I have worked hard for my entire life and this year I will finally see some results. I am joining a professional organization to further my aspects and I am actively pursuing more IT certificates. Also I am looking for new and exciting places to sing. I am 33 years old and I live at home. This does not mean that I have credit problems or anything of the sort. I paid for my education with cash, I just paid off my SUV with cash, and I am now in the process of saving enough cash to put back into my savings account to replace what I spent on all of those things. I am the woman who needs security before moving and trying to fly by the seat of my pants without enough monetary backup. I know who I am and what kind of person I am and I know what kind of man I am looking for. Someone that listens to me and wants to pick me up and take me on some respectable dates to get to know me better before he decides if I am the woman for him. I have no debt at all. I know that this seems impossible to some, but it's not and I can show you too how to become completely debt free. You may have to make some sacrifices in your life that you don't like, but it can happen. I am almost where I need to be. So don't write me off completely until you know my entire story. I have been on many dates recently where men will only listen to the part where I say that I live with my parents and then they don't contact me anymore, so I need to put this out there for any potential future prospects so that they understand. I plan to move into an apartment by the end of 2013 and not just any apartment. I plan to move into a luxury apartment where I can pay all of my bills on time every single month without worry about car payments or credit card bills. Also, at this point I will be able to spend as much money as I need every month on the organic food that I need to remain in top health. A lot of people never stop to think about all of these details and in the long run it will cost you if you don't.

Striving for IT Certificates and knowledge of Network Security and Cryptography.

Singing

My winning personality and my smile.

I like movies that are based on reality. I will listen to anything once and try new food whenever fancy strikes.

My Sight,
My Brain,
My Hearing,
Water,
Food,
Friends,
Love

Computers....I am fixing to buy a new one and I am doing a lot of research.

On the computer...or reading...learning something....rehearsing singing.....maybe watching a Lifetime movie or two....LOL I would go out, but most of my friends are married and have kids by now so I don't like to go out by myself all that much. Maybe I need a date?

I am looking to take things very slow right now. I am trying to meet someone that I get along with well and can date on a regular basis. To all these guys on here that are just looking for casual sex and other nonsense: Please do not message me with sex talk right away. I find it very offensive. Thanks.

You are serious about getting to know me. If you return calls when you say that you will. If you are a genuine person who is looking for a true friend and possibly more. I'm searching for a man, not a fling. If you are not ready for a relationship (ie. you aren't totally divorced yet, you have exes lingering around, you aren't sure about what you want in life, you're not able to make a commitment even to a date.) then you are not the man I am seeking. Also, do you take care of your body? Do you exercise at all? Do you like what you see in the mirror? While I am by no means absolutely perfect, I don't expect you to be either, but if you weigh almost 300 pounds and eat whatever you want continuously with no regard for your health or well being, please do not message me as I am not the woman for you. I want someone in my life that strives for health and wellness and I want that man to exercise with me. Working out 3 times per week is not that hard and that is all it takes to stay in shape. You can't expect to be with a beautiful person if you do not care about yourself first. I am comfortable with the way that I look and the level of health that I have achieved and I am looking for the same in a partner.