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35 Houston, TX Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–42
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 4
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am seeking a man that communicates effectively.

A non-narcissistic type that is able to emotionally connect with others is a plus. Can you effectively express your your feelings?

Are you in to dating multiple people at the same time or are you looking for a soulmate? This is an important question that you should ask yourself before seeking me out.

When you ask a woman out on a date do you follow through on it? When you tell a woman that you will call do you make sure to do it?

If you are not interested after the first date, can you effectively tell someone that calmly and sincerely?

Are you more interested in yourself and your own desires than trying to meet someone halfway?

What is your diet like? Do you care about what you put into your body?

Are you comfortable with yourself as a person?

Are you an honest person, both with yourself and with others?

I am all of these things and more and I expect the same in return from a potential mate. No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes, but are you willing to own up to them and apologize when they happen?

Are you a real person and not a bot? Are you able to think independently from the collective whole?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Striving for IT Certificates and knowledge of Network Security and Cryptography.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My winning personality and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like movies that are based on reality. I will listen to anything once and try new food whenever fancy strikes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Sight,
My Brain,
My Hearing,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When and if the economy is going to get better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully going on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My fantasies. To the right man of course.

I am mostly vegetarian, but this does not mean that I will not eat meat once in awhile. I just don't regularly eat it by choice. I prefer healthier options, but I am not ridiculous about it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in a first date and want to see if there is a connection.