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35 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 4:07am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
English, Polish

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My self-summary
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My philosophy is to stay in the moment and find amusement in everyday life. And life… has been pretty good. Consumed by plenty of laughter, exotic travel, personal adventure and constant scribbles.

This all kind-of began after completing my undergrad. During my senior year of school, I suddenly realized that I wanted to do nothing with my degree. On a whim, I joined Peace Corps and became a volunteer in Lesotho. The experience was incredible. Those two years were filled with reading books I previously had no time for, learning a new language, and hitchhiking around Southern Africa. I loved it and at that point, I never looked back. I decided to stay an extra two years in the country and somehow managed to land a cool gig with an international non-profit. Time in Zimbabwe and Zambia followed. Then South Sudan. During that span, my world revolved around designing and carrying out HIV, family planning, safe water and malaria programs. The experience was certainly gratifying. The work on the other hand was intense and at times absurd. But I had my moments of success. Failures too. As a whole, I don’t know if any of it made a difference. But the experience shaped me.

Now I’m back. Have been living in Seattle for over 3 years. I dig this place. Clean air, great lifestyle and good people. Was lucky to find a great job with a non-profit working on reducing poverty in the developing world via strengthening land rights. I’m also an MBA student. I have big dreams and am chasing them down. Life is busy. But I make time for other - and possibly more important - stuff too. I meditate and have found a new friend called yoga. I’m extremely active and do outdoorsy things with good friends and family. I still make time to read. More often than not, I tell fairly lame jokes (swear... they are hilarious) and as a disclaimer, I should mention that sarcasm is also a part of the package. From time to time, I oddly get bouts of uncontrollable giggles - Anderson Cooper style. Of me, my friends would say that I’m extremely compassionate and considerate which I greatly appreciate. Nice to have a good circle of friends. I also like to think of myself as professionally successful, financially secure and emotionally stable. Life is good.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make a small, yet positive dent in the universe.
I’m really good at
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Listening to and understanding other people, having a conversation with anyone, high fives and getting shit done.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and ability to feel at ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music... my tastes are all over the map. Recently it has been a mix of The Black Keys, the new Daft Punk Album, Pink Floyd, Stravinsky, Tchaikovsky and Talking Heads.

Books... sooooo many, all sorts of stuff on Buddhist philosophy, 100 Years of Solitude, Shantaram, almost anything by Paul Theroux, The Razor's Edge, stuff by David Foster Wallace, etc. Except for Ayn Rand. Her philosophy and thinking is solid. But her fiction is painful to read.

Movies/TV: Don't watch any TV shows or a whole lot of movies. But do enjoy anything Louie CK comes up with and Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee. Hilarious.
The six things I could never do without
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My passport, a gym (or something makeshift with the essentials), a good book, decent tunes, clean water (I no longer take this for granted), and sushi (better get it while it's still available).
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I’m happy to chat with anyone. Don’t be shy about reaching out. I should mention that I'm looking for someone that has their act together. For me, this means taking responsibility for choices, actions and decisions and being happy with who you are regardless of the absurdity in life. Self-awareness is a huge plus. If this is you, I'm looking forward to chatting...