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36 F Northampton, UK

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–60
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Alternate between being a crazy adventurer and needing to curl up and have a quiet life. Itinerant nomad, who will stop for hugs, good company, whisky, gigs and dancing. The super-power i need is teleportation....or a TARDIS - my friends seem to think i would make a most excellent Timelord - partly as i am half way there. I also appear to have been nick-named the "littlest Hobo" (maybe tomorrow, i'll want to settle down, until tomorrow i'll just keep moving on)

Whilst theoretically i live in Brighton, this is becoming increasingly theoretically. i spend a lot of time not actually in Brighton. In fact i spend most of my time on a rough loop between Northamptonshire, Oxford, Birmingham and London in the UK.

Likely to be moving to Northampton in June so getting to know people in that area would be welcome :
Overseas - well anywhere really if there is conflict/natural disasters it is more likely than if it is a lovely stable country.
except Texas - i like Texas after a visit there this year (although you could argue i guess that Texas is neither lovely, stable, or a country) , and hope to be able to add it occasionally to the migratory pattern... Nairobi is a bit of a hub, so i pass through there a couple of times a year. Austria usually at Christmas.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working as a humanitarian aid security consultant. This essentially means i help people work out how to stay alive/uninjured/do their job in conflict and post conflict settings. It also means i frequently jet off to strange climes.

In the UK i seem to spend a lot of time whizzing about the country in the "Glory Super Shark" which is the name of my car currently. I can explain why if you are interested, either for work or to visit friends around the country or go to festivals and events. Can also be found in London at Shenanigans whenever we are running it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking about random subjects
having interesting schemes and ideas, and often acting on them
contingency planning and practical solutions
getting on aeroplanes and flying to strange places
getting in the car and driving to less strange places
Living where i find myself.
embracing the good crazy so there is no place for the bad.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told that its my curly hair and mobile eyebrows? On a good day i can be very smiley - oh and breasts. I have breasts - i am aware of this fact, but strangely enough sometimes people feel the need to comment on this.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I'm an avid reader and will devour most things. A few that come to mind that have stuck in my mind/been significant: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, On the Road, In the Morning we will be killed along with our families, The Illuminatus Trilogy, The Dice Man, Brave New World, Heart of Darkness, Stranger in a strange Land, Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell

Authors whose stuff i devour: Neil Gaiman, Philip K Dick, Robert Heinlen, Naomi Novak, Douglas Adams

Music: eclectic: folk, rock, metal, punk, goth,, americana all figure. I'll listen to lots of things, but artists i keep going back to time and time again are: The Rolling Stones, Josh Ritter, Steve Earle, Bruce Springsteen, Meatloaf, The Levellers, Richard Thompson, Show of Hands, The Old Blind Dogs, Emmylou Harris, Bellowhead, Afro Celt Sound System, Imagined Village, Martha Wainwright, Dresden Dolls, Joni Mitchell, Bob Dylan, Gretchen Peters, Seth Lakeman, The Men they could not Hang, Manu Chao/Manu Negra

My favourite new bands are Crowns - cornish fishpunk apparently, American Aquarium, and the Zac Brown band - Americana - go listen they are awesome! Favourite new singer/songwriter Antje Duvecot

Movies: Factual, War, sci fi, fantasy

Apocalypse Now (brilliant adaptation of Heart of Darkness), Hotel Rwanda, Sometimes in April (which makes Hotel Rwanda and Shooting Dogs seem a walk in the park), Johnny Mad Dog, Blood Diamond, Blade Runner, Total Recall, Pans Labyrinth, Bowling for Columbine, Avatar, studio Gibli, The Ring (Japanese version)
I do watch lighter stuff - and enjoy it, its just its the hard hitters that stay in my brain.

TV shows: Supernatural, Jericho, The 4400, Dexter, Masterchef, Once Upon a time.
Food: I'll try most things :) In particular unusual food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my friends
my passport
a good pair of boots
wheels (until i get that teleportation thing sussed)
the keys to my mates houses!
mobile phone (well i could, and have...but these days it is exceedingly useful)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
other places
contingency plans
depraved countries
nothing in particular (procrastination)
schemes and dreams
whatever is distracting me at the time
what i am doing on a "dating" site when i seem to have a dislike of dates! (but i do like chatting to people, and if they intrigue me am willing to meet to do something interesting and see what happens!)
Why when i engage in a rambling conversation with people on this site, and have just about decided i might actually agree to meet that individual they then delete their profile!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
..theres no such thing as typical....i might go out dancing, to a gig, for a meal, to visit friends, to catch a plane to somewhere, walk by water, or curl up with a movie or good book. I might also be in a field somewhere LARPing or camping with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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talk to me and find out
You should message me if
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you can do random internet witterings - sometimes frequent, then with long gaps, only to come back as if it was a few minutes ago
you have something interesting to say to me.
you want to be random at me
you want to try and persuade me to do something interesting or go on an adventure.
you live anywhere - really - i am just as likely to eventually meet you if you live in Timbuktu as i am if you live in Brighton. Possibly more likely, given the current situation in Mali, and the fact i dont already have friends there!
you like strange nomadic geeky humanitarians.
you have a crazy theory to discuss
you think embracing the good crazy,so there is no space for the bad is a good philosophy
you are from Northants and want to recommend me where(not) to live, and show me the area.