I will most likely not ask for your phone number or offer mine until i feel like there is a connection.
I am not here to be popular and get the most messages possible. I want to actually form a connection with someone i feel is compatible with me and explore it to the fullest.
What you should know before messaging me:
If you type ghetto, i will pass. "u no wut i meen." Sorry, pet peeve. (Shorthand is different. wyd, hmu, omw, etc is ok)
If you refer to your boyfriend as "daddy", i will pass. That's creepy.
If you say you don't smoke, AND don't do drugs, yet your interests include "420" i will pass. *facepalm*. I'm going to assume that is not a time of day you're so fond of. That logic alone bothers me. -___-
I dislike people who cannot live and let live. I have no objection to the way people live their life, nor do i try and change it.
I am not a religious person. I have the utmost respect for you if that's something that plays a role in your life, but please don't try and "save my soul".
The chances of getting me to join you in church are slim.
I am here because there are certain types of people who i am attracted to, and others who i am not. I feel that dating online helps filter them out and eliminate hurt feelings.
I always read what people write. I can say that if you have not written any information, i will not be messaging you. There are a lot of pretty faces on this website. When you have nothing to say about yourself, opinions will be based on looks alone, because that's all you provided. That might be what you prefer.
Just don't complain when there are "no quality guys" on this site when all you have up are bikini pics and no aspirations or interests. There is more to me than just a couple paragraphs. I would hope it is the same for others. =/
Now more about me! :D
I am sarcastic, witty, intelligent, laid back, confident, respectful, polite, and I have a positive outlook on everything.
I have a decent vocabulary.
I am an affectionate person.
My clothes fit.
I am a very playful person.
I am a big kid at heart.
My personality type is INTJ, if that is something you have interest in.
I have a vast curiosity about everything in the world. I love learning new things.
I believe everything happens for a reason.
I love being proved wrong and like being challenged.
I am a nerd.
I love scifi and play video games when i can, and I love going to the movies, but not the ghetto theaters. I like going to the ones in rich parts of town. Lol
I realize i may have shot myself in the foot by saying i play video games. I know most girls do not find that remotely appealing. However, it is an interest of mine which my significant other would have to endure occasionally. If your bf playing video games bother you, i want you to be aware of that before you message me. I'm not saying you should be a video game enthusiast or even enjoy playing them yourself. Rather, just someone who respects and understands that it is something i enjoy doing that helps me unwind and de-stress. That being said, i have my priorities. I do not do it excessively, and my romantic interest would always come first.
That being said, I work hard and play hard.
I am zealous, driven and full of ambition especially regarding my career.
Music wise, im fairly eclectic. i hate the radio because they play the same songs all day long. With the exception of Rob Arnie and Dawn. ~.o
Movies: I love anchorman, step brothers, Ace Ventura. I;ve seen the ace ventura movies dozens of times and still laugh every time i see it. Additionally, most big budget sci-fi, or action movies whether they are good or not.
Family Guy, The Walking Dead, Futurama, Game of Thrones, and It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia are some of my favorite shows :D but i also love anything on science channel, discovery, comedy central, and history channel.
My ideal traits in a girl:
Sociable, talkative (since i am more introverted)
Does not rely completely on the guy to carry conversations
Does not do drugs
Knows her alcohol limit
Has a direction in life
If you are a playful, confident person and feel we have common interests or have ever been considered a dork, i would love to talk to you. :]