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37 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:20pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous

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My self-summary
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Broken body. Surviving.
Supportive. Dancing.
Death rock. A few board games.
Post punk. Learning, struggling to remember.
Punk/oi. Compasionate.
Horror. Will not tolerate abuse.
Books. Music. Film.
Obscure 'dark' fiction.
Love. Feminist. 50% misanthropic.
Stumbling humour best ignored.
Huddling together under covers sharing secrets, the outside hidden world burning and storming.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to write.
Trying to stay sane.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Editing other people's writing
Back/shoulder/hand/foot massages
Being supportive/listening
Accepting differences
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know.

"They say right when they throw gasoline, tear it to shreds, that destruction is a form of change. So that their burning of money is ironic because they just want to tear the world apart."
---Some guy prefacing Run Your Pockets by No-Cash
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot so this is just a small list, same for films:

Skin and The Cipher(Koja)The Dark Tower:The Gunslinger, Paradise(morrison), 100 Years of Solitude, The History of Luminous Motion, Good Omens, Ceremony(marmon-silko), Oedipal Dreams, Borderlands anthologies 1-4, Mondo Zombie, Venus In Furs, Blood and Guts in Highschool, Dangerous Angels, Beautiful Losers, House of Leaves, Toni Morrison, Stephen King, Evelyn Lau, Scott Bradfield, Leslie Marmon-Silko, Terry Pratchett, Kathe Koja, Marquez, the for a long time now defunct Dell Abyss line of books. Ginsberg, Adrienne Rich, Leonard Cohen.

I keep adding, but any book by the Resnic-Tems together or alone(Steve and Melanie).

The Reflecting Skin, City of Lost Children, City of God, Dark City, Possession(1981), Pump Up The Volume, Big Trouble in Little China, The Battle of Algiers, Slacker, Ghostbusters, Another Earth, lots of horror flics such as House, Unnameable, From Beyond, They Eat Scum, Hellrasier I and II, Terry Gilliam, David Lynch, Richard Linklater, cronenberg

BSG, Golden Girls, Firefly, Twin Peaks, Carnivale

Main three genres:
Death Rock/goth such as Christian Death, Murder at the Registry, Cinema Strange, Virgin Prunes, Sex Gang Children, Danse Society

Post Punk such as Party Day, Asylum Party, The Wake(UK)

Punk/Oi such as Dead Kennedys, Choking Victim/Leftover Crack/Star Fucking Hipsters, Adverts, 4-Skins, The Business(UK), Pressure Point, No-Cash(hard core?), Cockney Rejects, Sham 69

Indie Rock, Riot Grrrl, Rap/Hip Hop, other: Ruby Falls Cowboy Junkies, Leonard Cohen, Huggy Bear, Team Dresch, Public Enemy, Tricky, Babes in Toyland, We Regazzi, Gene Defcon, Aretha, Joss Stone(first album), Overkill, Pain Teens, Limp Wrist, Die Antwoord, Bruce after first two albums.

Marc Maron's podcast WTF

Radio:The Diane Rehm Show, On the Media, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Talk of the Nation(sadly its off the air). Basically NPR a lot.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Obscure concoctions from companies with bland names.
Healthy food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stories, political social things, person to person interaction and things not to be named.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping. Saturday, more likely to be out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My body's broken.
I like Bruce Springsteen's album Nebraska.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If I limit who you might be I could be excluding an amazing person. If I do not limit myself I might have to decline people who have little in common with me.

"When I am on a pedestal,
You did not raise me there.
Your laws do not compel me
To kneel grotesque and bare.
I myself am the pedestal
For this ugly hump at which you stare.
---Leonard Cohen