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Luminousmotionn

35 / M / Straight / Single

Ocean City, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:14pm
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I rarely receive a response to my initial message. Stopping for a bit, maybe with luck someone will message me first.

horror movies/books
mostly old punk rock/oi/goth/post punk/death rock records
books of all kinds(read a lot)
movies of all kinds
board games(sort of)
lyme
not awkward/shy. Terrible at reading in between the lines, first impressions.
Can't find a place where I fit in.
Misanthropic feminist
Death rock(for those not familiar, its not death metal. very different. Try looking up on youtube Cinema Strange's "Unlovely Baby", Christian Death's "Haloes", or The Birthday Party's "Junkyard"), though I guess I do not appear so these days.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to write.
Trying to stay sane.
I’m really good at
Editing other people's writing
Back/shoulder/hand/foot massages
Being supportive/listening
Accepting differences
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Very long list, so instead I shall name a few

The Dark Tower:The Gunslinger, Paradise(morrison), 100 Years of Solitude, The History of Luminous Motion, Good Omens, Ceremony(marmon-silko), Oedipal Dreams, Borderlands anthologies 1-4, Mondo Zombie, Venus In Furs, Blood and Guts in Highschool, Dangerous Angels, Toni Morrison, Stephen King, Evelyn Lau, Scott Bradfield, Leslie Marmon-Silko, Terry Pratchett, the for a long time now defunct Dell Abyss line of books.

City of Lost Children, City of God, Dark City, Possession(1981), Pump Up The Volume, Big Trouble in Little China, The Battle of Algiers, Slacker, Ghostbusters, lots of horror flics such as House, Unnameable, Hell Raiser, From Beyond, They Eat Scum, Hellrasier I and II, Terry Gilliam, David Lynch, Richard Linklater

BSG, Golden Girls, Firefly, True Blood, Skins(UK, and really only seasons 1-2, and parts of 3-4), Doctor Who, Twin Peaks, This Is England

Christian Death, Huggy Bear, 4-Skins, Rainer Maria, Virgin Prunes, Clan of Xymox, Modern Eon, Cockney Rejects, Team Dresch, Concrete Blonde, Cowboy Junkies, Tricky, Pain Teens, Asylum Party, Party Day, Ruby Falls, Jayne/Wayne County and the Electric Chairs, The Business, Fangs on Fur, Leftover Crack, Choking Victim, Morning Glory(last three are sort of a given if u like one of them), Leonard Cohen, Overkill, Chameleons(UK)

Marc Maron's podcast WTF

Radio:The Diane Rehm Show, On the Media, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Talk of the Nation. Basically NPR a lot.
The six things I could never do without
Books
Obscure concoctions from companies with bland names.
Healthy food
Identity
5
6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Strategy, political social things, person to person interaction and things not to be named.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sleeping. Saturday, more likely to be out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My body's broken.
I like Bruce Springsteen's album Nebraska.
I read Venus In Furs and Story of O when I was 15/16 for general reading, not sexual curiosity. But Venus In Furs, I think, is really about the mechanics of love for some people. Or at least one perspective.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're an adult version of Cassie from Skins(UK).