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Lurker_4_Now

50 Macomb, MI Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 38–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 2
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Education
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So first a couple of new disclaimers:

I am looking to date with all the benefits but I am not looking to share lodgings. I share a house with my Mum and am quite happy where I am living. But in the interest of being up front I don't have guests over to the house.

Another disclaimer is that I have a dear, dear friend that I am intimate with on an ongoing basis. If you are looking for monogamy, I am not there.

And now on with the show.....

I’m on this site looking for rational people who appreciate life and are functioning adults. (Smile)

I am a work in progress as are we all. I am working on being positive and believing that I make the best choices for me.

At some point in your life you have to make the choice to live the hand you were dealt. And not hide behind the illusion that society/ mass media has pushed upon us all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning Meditation and practicing Positive Affirmations. Why wait to the new year to affect change?

I am exploring different activities and trying to meet new folks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
There are a bunch of things that I am good at and make me special and not interchangeable with every other Tammy, Donna and Helen (my version of Tom, Dick and Harry).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no clue maybe you can tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I typed I live to read instead of I love to read but this typo makes perfect sense. Books give me down time as in Mysteries and Romance novels. They give me self awareness and introspection into who I am and where I want to go in my life. Books give me basic knowledge such as what all the lights on the dashboard of my car mean. Books are a comfort to me, they shut out the world for me to relax and refocus on what is important.

O'my I have found a new love Podcasts. There are so many great podcasts out there I am enjoying exploring iTunes and finding new ones. If you have any to suggest message me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course everyone can't live without love and stuff like that so the silly things I can't live without are:

long soaks in the tub with a trashy novel
dark chocolate
hair dye
text messages from my kiddos
my iToy with silly games on it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about where I want to be in the next hour, next week, next month and next year. But not worrying about things I have no control over. The trick is to make plans in pencil so they are there in front of you but can be changed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wondering where the week went.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Please ask away, anything you want to know.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are willing and able to be flexible in mind and spirit. A flexible body doesn't hurt either.

Friends are always welcome and needed to make life enjoyable.