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Lustrare

48 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am worthy of connection.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm makin' it happen. Taking chances, risking it all, going for broke. And, it's perfume being such, that it's causing me to swoon...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing and learning and listening and moving and being still.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am here. In the moment. Making eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I listen to NPR. I like the blues, rock n roll, bluegrass, folk music, and Beethoven. I like Quentin Tarentino, Fish Taco's, fresh tomatoes, garlic, spinach, croutons, avocado's, cashews, and fresh eggs. I read everything I can get my hands on when I can.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can do without everything, and still thrive!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about why I can't match up this damn pile of socks!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably either hanging with some goofy kids, or wondering what to do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit it all. But, "I DIDN'T DO IT!!! I SWEAR!"...
You should message me if
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you can believe in, and choose to practice:

We choose to love (instead of something that happens to us) and see the quality of our relationship as an indicator of our psychological health and spiritual realization.

We transcend our primary fantasy and base our relationship in Being values, versus material, sexual, or emotional neediness.
We use our relationship for ongoing mutual learning, healing, growth and awakening towards the capacity to love unconditionally.

We hold an evolutionary perspective and have reached or strive towards an integral, trans personal or higher level of consciousness.

We continually develop, balance and harmonize our healthy feminine and masculine polarities.

We meet each other as opposites and equals to create synergy at the level of all seven chakras.

We share a purpose for our relationship which is larger than either individual and is offered in service for the greatest good of the largest number of people.

We have an Integral Life Practice (ILP) with modules for the health of our body, mind, spirit/soul, and shadow, as well as ethics, sexuality, work, emotions, and relationships.

We make an explicit agreement to tell/listen-to each other’s truths without the need for validation or acceptance from our partner, and to own our emotional reactions to our partner's reality.

We set and respect each other's healthy boundaries.
We share material resources and pursue an environmentally and socially responsible lifestyle.

We engage in sacred/tantric sexuality and practice monogamy out of choice instead of fear.