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48 • Portland, OR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 42–49
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Dec 24
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Strictly monogamous
- Has kids
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
I don't want no, cornbread, peas, black molasses,
Lord, Lord, Lord, at suppertime...
We choose to love (instead of something that happens to us) and see the quality of our relationship as an indicator of our psychological health and spiritual realization.
We transcend our primary fantasy and base our relationship in Being values, versus material, sexual, or emotional neediness.
We use our relationship for ongoing mutual learning, healing, growth and awakening towards the capacity to love unconditionally.
We hold an evolutionary perspective and have reached or strive towards an integral, trans personal or higher level of consciousness.
We continually develop, balance and harmonize our healthy feminine and masculine polarities.
We meet each other as opposites and equals to create synergy at the level of all seven chakras.
We share a purpose for our relationship which is larger than either individual and is offered in service for the greatest good of the largest number of people.
We have an Integral Life Practice (ILP) with modules for the health of our body, mind, spirit/soul, and shadow, as well as ethics, sexuality, work, emotions, and relationships.
We make an explicit agreement to tell/listen-to each other’s truths without the need for validation or acceptance from our partner, and to own our emotional reactions to our partner's reality.
We set and respect each other's healthy boundaries.
We share material resources and pursue an environmentally and socially responsible lifestyle.
We engage in sacred/tantric sexuality and practice monogamy out of choice instead of fear.
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