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33 Cobh, Ireland Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 25
5′ 9″ (1.74m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't often feel like I fit in in life. Life is like some kind of crowded store, really. It's just a field day for objectification. You read some words, you look at multiple choice questions, and really, you figure everyone here is lying.

That person is too honest, that person is too nice, that person is too mean. Not everyone lies I guess. Not you of course. But so many of the people here are deceiving each other. Guys are on here skimming your profile at best and looking at the pics, and evaluating you in their brains. You don't deserve that. You're better than that.

Maybe you're not. But if you are better than that, then please read on. There's a button there to send me a message. Use it.

My pictures are all real. I'm not going to tell you I'm some world traveler, because I've been to the Middle East and practice. Buddhism. I mean, I have, and I do, but really. I'm not going to put up pictures of myself without a shirt on because what is underneath is honestly not that great. And I'm okay with that. Are you?

I'm a geek. I enjoy the sciences and learning new things. I'm not rich, and I don't want to be. I'm not going to say I'm easy going either, because I'm not, frankly. I'm particular and I'm fussy, and I'm looking for a specific kind of person. And who doesn't want that? Who doesn't want to find the right match?

I want to talk to someone who is honest and open-minded. Someone who likes to talk about the world and our place in it. Someone who loves to analysis people and to understand how things works. Someone for whom kindness is the ultimate quality. Personal creativity is also a nice bonus - I love to write.

A woman with a strong mind and her own thoughts will grab my attention far more than nice makeup, tight curves, high skirts or low cut tops ever will. Physical beauty is wonderful and admirable, but I'm more interested in who you are before anything.

If you're that sort of woman, I look forward to hearing from you. Please don't just say hi. Tell me about yourself. I actually want to know you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Frank disclosure: I'm currently adjusting to a physical disability that keeps me immobile on a regular basic, and leaves me in a lot of pain. It limits my capabilities, but I'm trying my best not to let it.

One step at a time. Literally in this case.

Please take this into consideration before messaging me. I have no desire to be a burden on people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love writing. I don't do it half as much as I used to. I lack a muse or inspiration to really push forward with it.

I'm a bit of a geek, with a love for everything that comes with it - video games, science-fiction, science itself, you name it. If you share those interests, we could probably talk forever.

Being dominant.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
- My eyes
- My geekiness
- My epic beard
- My stubbornness
- My opinionated attitude
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I find this one impossible to answer. There are so many great books out there. I've enjoyed the Sandman series immensely (Neil Gaiman). a large selection of sci-fi novels by many of the classic genre writers - Douglas Adams, Philip K. Dick, etc.. Very fond of traditional classics. There are so many books in the world that I've never read! Give me more books!

Show: Anything on television even remotely geeky works for me, especially if its sci-fi - Dr. Who, Stargate, Star Trek, etc. I don't actively watch television that often, but when I like something, I tend to like it a lot.

Music: I have no genre preferences, and I'll listen to anything. Being too selective just limits your experiences. I prefer to judge music based entirely on its quality.

A very limited selection of specific bands and musicians I've been fond of over the years include - Sisters of Mercy, Muse, Machinae Supremacy, Ani Choying Dolma (much respect to you if you know who this is), Peter David, :wumpscut:, Echo & The Bunnymen, IAMX, and countless dozens of utterly obscure bands and artists that nobody has ever heard of.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- books
- a clear state of mind
- my imagination
- seeing kindness given to people
- learning new things
- the wonders of science
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I literally cannot shut my brain off. I'm always thinking, always wondering, always questioning. It's maddening sometimes!

How other people think. I've always been fascinated by the human condition.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home, reading a good book or playing a good video game. Sometimes writing, but that doesn't happen as often as it used to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Intimacy scares me to death until I get close to someone.

I write adult erotica, and I'm pretty damn good at it. I can write you words you never dreamed of, inspired entirely by you. Find out for yourself if you don't believe me.

I'm a Dom. If you don't know what that means or think it's gross, we won't get along.
You should message me if
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You enjoy healthy debate
You are a raging geek
You are spiritually inclined
You enjoy literature or writing